“harmonicamoon? You can have my answer now, if you like. My reply is this: nothing. Not even an “LOL” or a “hi” or a :), which I would appreciate if you would provide personally.”
it’s hurtful to you, so you’re bound to think it was intentional or about you. Perhaps the individual is just not in a ‘space’ to be social at the moment. They might even be Depressed (the Real Thing, not the Mood) and Simply Asocial for the time being- not really talking to Anyone.
I hope my friends will forgive weeks or years of my not getting in touch~ Most do, and those are my True Friends.
People go through ‘things’~ and not all of it is Shareable…
If NO ONE is able to get in touch with this friend, i’d try to arrange a Face- to Face to make sure they are still Alive and Functioning~ if so, Give them the Space or Help they need.
Just my Opinion.
it’s hurtful to you, so you’re bound to think it was intentional or about you. Perhaps the individual is just not in a ‘space’ to be social at the moment. They might even be Depressed (the Real Thing, not the Mood) and Simply Asocial for the time being- not really talking to Anyone.
I hope my friends will forgive weeks or years of my not getting in touch~ Most do, and those are my True Friends.
People go through ‘things’~ and not all of it is Shareable…
If NO ONE is able to get in touch with this friend, i’d try to arrange a Face- to Face to make sure they are still Alive and Functioning~ if so, Give them the Space or Help they need.
Just my Opinion.
Interesting update…My friend (of 50+years), Robert, gave me a Skype today! All is well. I asked him wassup with the reply with no words. And he said there was a reply. I looked up my sent folder and sure enough. Some how I missed it the first time. Life is good folks! Thanks for being there! You’re beautiful, don’t change!
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Get a room, you two.