Poll for the married Dopers

In My Humble Opinion
21

  1. Yes

  2. Little over two years

  3. 2-3 times a week now. Before the baby was born especially while pregnant 2-3 times a DAY.

22
  1. Yes
    2)13 years together 11 married
  2. 10 times a year (we live apart due to his job, and sometimes when he comes home there isn’t a night that we can actually do it, if he comes home 2am one night and leaves 5pm the next day…)
23

1.) Yes
2.) 3 Years
3.) ~ 100 time/annually (used to be closer to 200 before the kid)

24
  1. Yes.
  2. 30 years.
  3. Sorry, private info.
25

Not to go into any details, but it seems like by limiting it to coitus you could really be twisting the numbers. A couple could be having coitus less often than others simply because they were getting it on in any number of other ways instead.

26

  1. Yes

  2. 20 years.

  3. Annually? Damn. This is somewhat complicated by the fact that my husband’s been travelling a lot for work. He’s almost always home for the weekend, but he’s out of town monday-thursday 2 or 3 weeks a month… We do it most everyday when he’s home, though – and sometimes twice. So let’s say somewhere between 150 (low side) and 365 (high side).

27
  1. Yes
  2. Married to a Doper for 3 years
  3. 150-200
28

1- Yes

2- Almost four years

3- About 3-4 times per week, so about 175-200 annually

29

Yes
23 years
1-3 times a week

30

My stats (before everything went to hell last year)

  1. Do you still do it (with each other, I mean).
    Yes

  2. How long have you been in the “permanent monogamous” relationship?
    15 years

  3. Estimated annual frequency of coitus?
    10-20 times a month

31
  1. Yes
  2. 2 years
  3. Several times daily, though it’s been cut back to a couple times each day, due to the hectic Christmas season. But he’s on vacation now, so start your engines!
32

  1. Do you still do it (with each other, I mean).
    Yes

  2. How long have you been in the “permanent monogamous” relationship?
    see notes

  3. Estimated annual frequency of coitus?
    75 - 100

Notes:

1, Have been married twice, am not currently married
2, don’t live together or even in same city
3, original “permanent monogamous” relationship ended 29 years ago
4, resumed “permanent monogamous” relationship with former first wife about 4 years ago
5, temporary interlude this year when non-monogamous due to misunderstanding for about 8 weeks - wouldn’t have happened with better communication

33

OK, I’ll throw off the stats:

  1. I guess I’d have to say yes if you’re talking about at all in the past year, but essentially, no.
  2. 23 years
  3. 1
34

  1. Yep.

  2. 21 years (married 17)

He works out of town during the week, so we have to work hard to get quality alone time on weekends. But we make it a priority.

35

Is there any question why this lovely woman gave us the now famous/infamous “Penis Ensues”?

36
  1. Technically yes
  2. 13 years (11 years married)
  3. Coitus? :dubious: 0-3, I estimate, not to completion. Other stuff - 15-20?
37
  1. Yes.
  2. 15 years.
  3. Wife would kill me if I answered this one.
38

  1. Yes

  2. 20 years in March

  3. 0-several times per week. Kids, new business, etc. Sometimes we both just collapse in bed. Hell, Tuesday I was asleep for good by 8:15.

Now, let me ask the question I’d bet per are interested in:

To what point is this survey aimed?

39

1 (I read this as do you still live together) NO

2 8 years

3 see answere number one.

40

Yes
4 years
uh…lots.