Today me and the lady friend were discussing how much sex we have, just after having had sex. It occurred to each of us that it has been quite a long while since any semblance of a dry spell for either of us (longest being 2 days).
We’ve also been averaging 1.something times a day (min- 0 , max- 7 in a 24hour period) Keep in mind we are a new (under 3months) couple, and in college. Twenty-one years of age and nineteen. Now even for college kids I feel like we bang more than nymphomaniac rabbits. Not that I find it a problem:D.
How about everyone else out there? Give approximate averages, length of relationships, and age for reference. Feel free to comment on the past…
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All right – everyone will want to read these but no one will want to reply, so I’ll start.
39 y.o. male here, four kids, married close to 19 (!) years.
We probably average every other day, but it’s not that even. Some weeks it’s twice a day or more for a long stretch – no, really! – and sometimes we take a week off. (Life gets in the way: There’s a house to remodel, a job to go to, pets to tend, guest pets to petsit, gardens to grow, stories to write.) We often wake each other up in the middle of the night – that’s just another benefit of working nights and not having to get up at a certain time.
This has only been in the last couple years, when we both got back into shape. Before that it was maybe once every three days, and the results were not always spectacular or successful. So my advice is start that exercise program, everyone. You’ll appreciate the side effects!
(Like SuperFreaknDuper, back in college, our max was seven times in a 24-hour period as well. But that leaves you kind of sore and chafed. I don’t miss that kind of obsession. )
Well… in my current relationship, we have sex at least once a day… but we usually average 2 or 3, but I had gotten sick recently and we have been having sex less frequently. But still pretty much at once a day.
We have gotten up to as many as 7 times in a 24 hour period, 12 in like i dont know, 38 hours. It was intense. And as many as 3 orgasms in one go! its been fantastic…
I feel like its a lot, but I’m also not willing to give it up, I like sex just as much as anyone else… possibly including nymphos!
Maybe every 3rd day. We’re on different work and school schedules, so sometimes it is hard to find time alone. I’m 25, she’s 22. Dating almost 5 years, not married. FWIW.
Married 8 years. It was every day, almost without fail, for the first five years and more than that the two years we were dating, but lately more like 3-4 times a week. Pretty much never more than 3 days without, unless he’s out of town.
Bleh. About once a week, and we’re young, healthy and so on. We have totally opposite arousal schedules; I like to do it at night, she always wants it during the day, especially in the morning.
On the bright side, she tends to come 3-5 times per session. Unfortunately, I don’t.
First off, I hate you, because I envy you. The sex drive at that age is just about perfect-- enjoy it while it lasts.
Of course, the cruel trick of biology is that men and women rarely line up in the sex drive department. Women in their thirties are wasted on us older guys-- rarely does a day go by where I don’t wish I was 19 again, just so I’d be compatible with sex-crazy ladies in their 30s.
Anyway: GF and I are 34. Been together 2 1/2 years. Sex goes in waves-- we’ll have sex every day for a few days, then take a week off. Sex includes everything, which isn’t just sex anymore-- as I’ve gotten older, I realize that other things make me as happy, if not happier sometimes, than straight ol’ sex. In lewder terms, I’m sometimes set for a while with a blowjob or a handjob, I don’t need to have actual intercourse to consider the box checked.
The pattern in my life has always been the same, however: no matter if the relationship is good or bad, you ALWAYS have more sex at the start than later on. In the good relationships, it doesn’t matter that you have less sex later; in the bad ones, you can’t wait to leave and get laid again like mad.
Over the course of a 7-day period, anywhere from 3-6 times. We tend to group our activities to Thursdays through Mondays, for some reason. We have sex every weekend morning (with rare exception), so at an absolute minimum, there’s our 2 per week. But sometimes we also do it again on Tuesday night or Wednesday morning, and often on a Friday night after a couple drinks, and again on Monday night. If we do it Monday night, we don’t do it again until Thursday. Not sure how it worked out this way.
Also, it’s not uncommon for one of us to call the other during the day to report on a just-completed solo session, so then the other one does it too, which leads to face-to-face action that night.
We’re in our early 40’s, married 10 years, known each other for over 20.
I had a girlfriend who used to visit me for the weekend and we’d do it 2x Friday, 2-3x on Saturday, and 2x on Sunday before she left. Those were fun but exhausting weekends.
Probably an average of once a day. Most nights we’ll have sex, and mornings where we’re not in a rush (although sometimes we’ll manage to squeeze in a quick one), and sometimes another time during the day, but we don’t see each other every day so there will be a day or two where we go without.
We’ve been dating for a few months now, in our late 20s.
Female, aged 26, married close to three years, in the same relationship for seven.
Last time was August 2008, so… 8 months. That’s actually long even for us… usually we at least average a few times in a row every two months.
Mutual attraction is not the issue. Half the time I have intimacy problems (I would rather lock myself in a room and take care of it on my own… and usually do), the other half I have no sex drive because I’m either too busy or too physically ill. We’re actually quite happy together and incredibly close, but I would definitely rank this as the weakest part of our relationship. I fully acknowledge it’s my fault and cannot verbalize the magnitude of the guilt I have. I’ve tried to change so many times. We’ve been meaning to work on it, but since he’s a grad student and I’m about to be one, I can’t exactly say it’s top priority for either of us. We talk and giggle and cuddle and flirt every day, so it’s not like there’s no physical connection at all. But still.
