Yet another sexuality thread by yours’ truly. I just think that, in general, it’s an incredibly interesting topic, especially once you start getting into the enormous differences between the sex drives of men & women. Given the somewhat mixed responses of my last topic (how important is sex to women?), I figure that the question behind this one is a suitable jumping off point.
In an ideal scenario, how frequently would you have sex?
As a twenty year old male, I’d ideally have sex every other day; ironically, that’s probably on the middle-to-low end of the scale insofar as to how that relates to the sex drive of most guys my age. I oftentimes find myself going upwards of a week with little to no sexual desires at all, yet that doesn’t mean that I’m generally not in a higher gear most of the time.
Still, I’d imagine that most women (both around my age and older) would probably be content to have sex once or twice every couple weeks or so.
Uhh XD Mid 30’s female and…maybe once a month? Probably just for the sake of my partner more than myself. But then again I know my lack of any sort of libido is strange.
Woman, 26, every day would be ideal. I like it and it puts me in a good mood. But I can do just fine going without for over a week, too. Frequency increases desire for me.
Of my female friends, there are those who want it AT LEAST every other day, and those who hardly want to at all (ie no sex drive). Very little middle ground.
45 y.o Male: I’ll echo the 1/morning & 1/night sentiment, though I’d replace insomnia treatments with mid-day sessions. I think I’d sleep through the night with that kind of frequency.
—G!
“They all got ONE thing in common:
They got that fire down below!”
—Bob Seger & The Silver Bullet Band Fire Down Below
Is “Whenever i feel like it” a valid answer? with the way work is some weeks i just want to sleep during any free time i have, but if i’m not tired then morning and night would be perfect.
