IIRC there are several discreet pilots who have their own planes, usually Cessna’s and the like, who openly advertise their willingness to take a couple up just so they can become members of the “Mile High Club”. I’ve seen a couple of websites advertising this and I once participated in a forum where one of the pilots was a member as well. He confirmed that indeed this does happen and you could hire his plane, and himself as pilot, for a couple hours. He’d take you up over a mile, then close the curtains and you’d “submit your application”. The website mentioned earlier should have links to sites like this pilot had, if not, try google.
Surely you must realize that, given the current world situation, the carry-on luggage of airline passengers is under stricter scrutiny that ever before. Given that there have already been cases of female passengers having difficulty passing through security with sex toys that they had no intention of even using in-flight, it is blatantly unfair to require prospective lesbian members of this organization to carry such items onboard when heterosexuals and gay men are subject to no such restrictions.
Keeping lesbians out of the Mile High Club is just what the terrorists would want.