Poll:Women with erect nipples visible under clothes: sexy/embarrassing/unprofessional/ no big deal?

I really don’t understand the question. Adult females have breasts, breasts have nipples. So what? I can’t remember ever noticing “visible nipples” in a professional context any more than I have noticed that the other person, since she happens to be a woman, has breasts.

I’ll try to remember asking my wife, when she comes back from her business trip, what she thinks about the issue - provided she thinks about it at all.

FTR: I’m a straight European male
ETA: It’s quite another matter if I’m ogling scantily-clad women :stuck_out_tongue:

The majority of the time, it’s an involuntary reaction to cold, air molecules, random events on the other side of the planet… What’s sexy about that?

Women are sexy. It’s part of your charm. :slight_smile:

I’m a guy, and yet I basically agree with this. If the woman’s just walking down the street or shopping at the grocery store, it’s sexy, whether intentional or a “happy accident”. If she’s working as a barmaid, I assume she’s aware of the look and is attempting to increase her tips – manipulative but still okay. If she’s on the job as a bank teller, schoolteacher, or just about any other occupation, however, it’s unprofessional and uncomfortably distracting.

I personally don’t think I would even notice. I voted “Guy–no bid deal.”

I’m female. I don’t have any opinion on visible nipples as such; unless we’re actually in medias makeout, it’s not about sex, guys, it’s temperature and/or fabric friction and not something we can control.

What bugs me is guys who insist on acting like it’s deliberate, or for their personal benefit: staring, making comments, using it as an excuse to hit on the chick, etc. I don’t see why we should have to wear padded bras to protect us from having a normal involuntary autonomic nervous system reaction just so men don’t think we’re “slutty” or “unprofessional”.