When I said you sound awfully sensitive, my intention was to indicate that your breathing seemed awfully sensitive to pulmonary irritants.
Your interpretation suggests that I may have been too restrictive in my intent. Rant on!
And where do I subscribe to the kayaker cultural experience? 
I live in the country with neighbors about 100 yards away and I’m sure they can smell it when I am smoking in the garage. At first one of the neighbors would call the kids to come into the house when they smelled it, they soon gave up. I think the kids educated them on what the smell was and can we just go out and play?
August and September is when there are mature plants growing in the garden outside and it smells like I am raising some really angry skunks.
That’s interesting. Do you get the same reaction if you just smell it on somebody’s clothing?
You can try positive pressure, having a fan from a known clean source blow into your home, and hopefully block smoke from entering. We lowered radon levels by positively pressuring the lower level. After a while we went with the ‘standard’ sub-slab depressurization but positive pressure did work to keep out a gas.
Have you explained your problem to the neighbor and worked with him to have a fair solution? Even my brother the cigarette smoker has switched to other methods to be nicer the lungs of those around him.
Pot stink is nasty, far worse than tobacco. And it lingers.
None of my dozen plants smelled like skunk, and very little flower I find here in CO smell skunky. It seems like the strains around me have bred the skunk smell out. The weed from the 80’s was way more stinky and skunky then what i grow today.
I live in NW Oregon near the coast and the season is just too short for Sativa strains, the plants will just start to develop flowers and then the rains start around the first of October and they will be lost to mold and stem rot. I wish I had a long, dry October but it has been years.
I have been growing a landrace (found in the wild and unhybridized) strain of Afghani that finishes up nicely right before the rains set in. And it stinks.
Afghani is one of my favorites to smoke, and when i grew (indoors) it was an easy plant to work with. And yeah, sticky and stinky!
Carbon dioxide, too, not just water vapor.