In another thread a few weeks ago, another poster complained about how tv made anal sex between gay partners seem like a commonpace, everyday thing, instead of something taking a long time to prepare for, needing careful planning.
I have no experience in this area.
At the risk of being disgusting, what ‘preparations’ are needed prior to anal sex that makes it such a huge undertaking?
I’m not gay either and don’t even like anal sex with women. It just doesn’t seem like a good place to put my penis no matter how much precaution or prep work is taken. Aslo, it just doesn’t turn me on. That being said, I did try it a few times and I would have to say the 2 things that come to my mind would be use a condom and the person should really have an enema to clean the pathway. I’ve had shit on my dick and it was totally nasty.
But hey, whatever floats your boat. If it’s your thing then those are the two things I can see that would be important.
In my experience as a gay man who has had lots of anal sex, anal sex between gay partners is commonplace and was an everyday thing(well as everyday sex was occurring) . It is not commonplace in all relationships however, some gay men never have anal sex with their partners.
It isn’t some complicated physical undertaking that prevents anal sex from occurring, as that poster may be professing. Sometimes people just don’t want to or don’t like to do it so don’t.
Shower, lube, condoms. A little bit of time fingering to loosen them up if needed and apply lube.
Preparation to me I wouldn’t consider it an ordeal. I call it foreplay.
I think it depends on the couple, and one’s threshold for exposure to shit. If a streak doesn’t bug you, dive right in. If shit freaks you out and you need absolute cleanliness, there are some preparations you can undertake.
I would advise against “diving right in,” because of the risk of disease transmission. You really don’t want shit finding its way into your urethra. Rather than an enema, some guys prefer to urinate afterward, but it’s better not to be exposed in the first place.