Note: NinetyWt is female.
You go, girl! The male for this is “Swallow or it’s going in your eye, bitch!”. 
I’ve not had a redheaded partner. If that doesn happen at some future point, I’d be disappointed if she were shaved.
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I like the natural look. There is a very nice visual to slipping off her undies to reveal that bush.
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Hair is not an issue, basic hygiene is good.
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Small sample size but there was a difference in the taste of the one partner I’ve had outside my ethnic group. Nothing that couldn’t be explained by dfferences from person to person.
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Yes. Post pregnancy I’ve had trouble finishing in that orafice but as was pointed out, there are other options.
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Too silly to consider seriously.
- Why is a woman in her natural form less beautiful than a shaved, manicured form?
In all honesty I like it all, a hairy vagina is sexy feels good to rub your face on. I like a shaved more when I know she is doing it for me, it makes me feel good that she is thinking of me, like picking out and wearing lingerie for my birthday or something.
2. If your girlfriend/wife stopped shaving her armpit and vaginal area, would you be OK with that? Would it ever been an issue that could potentially collapse a relationship?
The biggest issue I see is that it would mean she doesn’t care about me enough to take the time to do that. I would hope that I could care about my partner enough that I could make sacrifices for her, and she would feel the same.
3. In your experience, does the vagina have odors that are similar but distinct among ethnic groups? (e.g. Does a black vagina smell different from a white pussy and does that smell different from an asian pussy or indian vagina, etc etc)
They all smell different and 99.9% of the time they smell great
4. Does the vagina remain relatively taut post-pregnancy? Post-menopausal? Have you ever been able to just not reach climax due to vaginal looseness?
Yes, Don’t know, Yes but I wouldn’t blame it on looseness
5. Does the consistency of a woman’s “climax” during orgasm ever drench a man’s penis similar to how the Japanese depict?
One girl who was on anti-depressants, sometimes no wetness and other times like a leaky faucet (I only mention the anti-depressants because she felt they were the cause)
Ha! “You will get down there, and you will like it!” No, no, I keed. I wouldn’t get forceful about it or anything, although… Seriously now, it’s more like I can’t imagine the day my life comes down to sleeping with a man so clueless and uninterested in pleasing his lover.
Hate to break this to you, but I’m a female. 
Oral sex is like a lot of things; some people love it and can’t imagine life without it; some people like it and would be sad to see it go; some people are “meh” about it and wouldn’t care if they never got it; and some people hate it and hope it never happens again.
I think that’s okay.
Hopefully everyone has a partner whose appetite and preferences for sexual things sort of matches. I wish that for everyone, anyway.
Most women I’ve actually talked about it with in real life indicate that, while they don’t necessarily dislike it, as long as they are getting sex in other ways, it doesn’t really bother them.
Thing is, that’s the same thing I’ve heard from men.
Once again, this board seems to completely skew the data relative to my own experiences. I’m never sure if y’all are typical for where you are, or if Dopers just happen to be atypical in similar ways.
If it matters, two of my partners have said it was OK that I didn’t go down on them because they actually disliked it (who knows? Maybe they’ve just never had a partner who was skilled at it) and only one of my partners had a problem with my not going down on her and even then, as long as I used my hands she was OK. Maybe they were all lying to me, but I don’t think so.
I am 12 and what is vagina?