Everything you’ve said your post is well-reasoned and highly plausible, but I have to disagree with you on the above.
Early on in the show Meadow came right out and asked Tony if he was part of the Mob. Additionally, at various times when she’s being her most sulkiest, she makes sly and sarcastic references to it.
I don’t think one asks this question or makes those types of references unless one is pretty much sure of the truth of it.
I do think she’s devoted to her father and a bit of a Daddy’s girl (remember in the epi just the two of the went out saki bombing). Her comment at the end about fighting for Italian-Americans was brilliant. It was half bullshit / half devotion to her Dad, but it left him speechless.
Also, I wanted to comment that I liked the show of affection when Tony reached across to touch A.J.'s hand, the, as if to say he accepted him. I also liked A.J.'s quote of something Tony had said in the past, letting Tony know he had been listening all along. Not sure if Tony died or not (see my interpretation*), but, to me, this was an indication of how all families fight, grow and eventually bond.
I also liked the black kids at the gas station too, for some reason.
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Originally posted by me "I think they give us enough tension, drama and some resolution. At least Phil’s dying was resolution enough for me.
On the one hand, I think the ending could have been a little more dramatic, shoot-em-up, and “let’s resolve everything,” like everyone expected.
On the other hand, it feels like, creatively, Chase gave us the only ending he could have – confounding everyone’s expectations overall and giving us enough unresolved strands to allow each of us to finish the story in our on way."