Actually, since you’re all wondering who helped my father, let me elaborate. He put himself through catholic school from the time he started (he worked at the school cleaning up to pay his tuition). He worked two jobs (one fulltime and one parttime) throughout college. No, there were no school busses - he was in very good shape and rode his bike (even during college) through all the bad neighborhoods in New Orleans. His parents were divorced and on some heavy drugs (as were his brother and sister), so it’s not like he had a role model. You say the projects were help, but I disagree. My point was that people act as if you need substantial help to get OUT of the project (if you’re born there, you assume you’ll die there) so they don’t do much of anything to get out.
Furthermore, let my try to reestablish my point on your other questions - sorry if I miss something. Juanitatech: I understand there are scholarships and funding and programs (and quotas) for all different ethnic groups. I merely gave an example of one group that I was pretty sure everyone would recognize.
Also, I agree that there’s no such thing as reverse-racism. I figured that term was the easiest way to prepare you for what this thread was about. Perhaps I should have tried something else.
My point about getting Americans (rather than minorities) out of poverty will help everyone. If you target hispanics, you’ll give scholarships to some who’ve done very well for themselves. Same with blacks, asians… whoever else. However, if you target poor people, you’ll always be helping someone who needs it. I just don’t understand how breaking people up into ethnic groups is good at all. We’re Americans. I don’t even know what half my ethnicity is, and I like it that way!
I’d also like to point out that I mentioned that when you note an ethnic difference (as anything but a description - as you would with hair or eye color), you’re being racist. I stand by that statement. I grew up in a very small town in Western NY where race was absolutely not an issue. I didn’t find out till Jr year in hs that one of my best friends was black - we just didn’t notice things like that, since they didn’t matter. I always thought she just had a really great tan, honestly. I didn’t ever know Michael Jordan was black - he was American. I’m not trying to sound like I’m some wonderful person who got it figured out, cause it wasn’t because of me - it was my town.
I’ve been in Southern Louisiana now for about two years, and I’m ashamed to say race is one of the first things I notice now. Everyone makes such a big deal of it all down here. The only two minorities I’ve met down here who don’t make it obvious that they’re different and expect to be treated that way are Richard a Moussa. Richard’s amazing to me cause he grew up here, and he still hasn’t been influenced. He’s black, but he doesn’t throw it in your face, and he has friends of all colors. Moussa’s from a small town in Senegal. He told me the first time he ever came accross racist attitudes was in the USA. It’s just sad.
What I’m saying is that if we can all be like my home town, none of this would matter. Let’s get everyone out of the ghettos. Let’s all realize our potential, and not let groups (pretending to help us) tell us we have no chance. Let’s just be Americans first. I’m not saying to dismiss your culture. My boyfriend’s family is Cuban, and I love getting a taste of that culture when I’m over there. His parents came as immigrants and made something of themselves - why can’t anyone who’s already in this country do the same?