Het female, 25. I’d give you an 8, possibly an 8.5 if you could get a nice hairstyle goin’. I’m an eye and lips person and you have nice lips imo. The eyes look a little puffy but that could just be because of the angle of the lighting on your face, not sure. If I saw you randomly in a bar I’d think “Hey, that guy over there is pretty cute.”
Of course no-one has made the (possibly blindingly obvious) point that these scores are all subjective and all that matters is what the person you like rates you, not a bunch of randoms on the internet. Hence why sites like hot or not have zero value to me.
You look like you’re planning to bomb a Federal building.
Uh, I think he covered that when he said “I’d like to see what random people think.”
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Don’t “uh” me like I’m a moron, please.
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No he didn’t - he said he wanted people’s views, he didn’t say anything about what value he was ascribing to said views.
A lot of the responses have been “you’re hot/kinky/average looking” which are value judgements, not objective points about the picture, and of course you can’t tell a great deal from a single photo. Numerical values (and there are quite a few of them in this thread) are even less helpful, they suggest some kind of objective standard when they are in fact an expression of a purely subjective one.
My point was simply that, random views aside, the only serious rating of attractiveness that generally matters in life is whether the person you are yourself attracted to feels the same (it’s why I said I would, the alternative being I would not). Should I have gone off and stared a whole new thread in MPSIMS to say all of this or did I just need your specific permission first?
Lets stay friendly please!
I know what those close to me think, I was only interested in what random people thought about a photo with no other information. And sometimes friends will be polite rather than honest also, or their views are biased by knowing me for a period of time.
If I was going to bomb a fed building I would wear.. wait, I dont know what the dress code is to bomb a building.
All comments are appreciated, I will tape my ears back, grow my hair out, make my eyes look less puffy, hide my arms, and shave Did I miss anything?
Yeah: Stop looking like rhubarbarin’s and my respective dads!
How does one make one’s eyes less puffy?
Nice eyes.
You might consider changing your shirt in the picture. That black shirt is very stark and makes your face look washed out a little by comparison.
Your face is OK, like a regular joe. What comes across most to me in the thread so far is your sense of humor. That’s more important to me.
Cucumber slices.
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Well, your eyes are a little fetal-piggy; have you considered mascara?
I agree - your sense of humour is very attractive.
As a heterosexual male, I would rate that picture as average, meaning you have no disadvantage due to ugliness, but I would not treat you nicely because you’re good looking.
As far as taking a good picture, smile bigger without it looking fakes, and look for better lighting (like golden hour)
I’m a gay man who has very discriminating taste in men. First of all, if you have good teeth, by all means show them with a nice smile. A closed mouth kind of implies you’re hiding something. Other than that, you have a very handsome face that’s going to improve with age, if you take care of yourself. Once you acquire a few character lines, it’ll make you look a lot more interesting . . . you know, less generic than you look now. Also . . . I’d like to see you lose a little weight, just enough to tighten up your face. But maybe that’s just me; I do have an attraction to skinny guys.
So when do we see the rest of you?
Operative bit bolded - you don’t need to lose weight DaveBfd.
This, however, I completely agree with.
haha uh oh. Let me see here… (runs away)
“Uh” is an interjection for doubt or pause, not saying you were a moron. Believe me, if I think you’re a moron I would’ve called you one, mod warnings be damned. How about not jumping to conclusions and automatically thinking that I’m personally attacking you, when I’m trying to point out something he may have already considered, hmmmm?
Straight male.
Lose the facial hair and you can crack 5 (wherein 5 is average looking).
Lose the black, short-sleeved collared shirt and replace with something that is a bit more hip and people will perceive you to be more attractive. Also, look away from the camera just a little next time to minimize the serial killer influences hiding in your DNA.
You could crack 6 with these changes.
Grow your hair and give it an actual style and you could hit 7, provided you work out and achieve a toned looked.
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The “uh” or “er” or “um” at the start of a statement on this board is typically short hand for “you’re stupid and let me now tell you why”. How about you accept the consequences of your communication style rather than blaming other people for how they perceive it?
Anyway, I’m hijacking. Back to telling DaveBfD if his picture gives us boners or not.
You remind me of Lukas Haas.