Regenerating teeth, and teething generally

My infant daughter is going through a bad patch of teething. She has disturbed sleep, rosy red cheeks in the areas coinciding with her new teeth, her gums are inflamed, and generally crankiness. Sleep is a luxury item in my household right now.

Yet a number of doctors we have spoken to say that there is no such thing as “teething”: it is now simple irritability arising from her general infant development.

When did this change in thinking come about? Is there any merit to it?

And speaking of teeth, I read somewhere once a long time ago that very long-lived humans cut a new set of teeth. This sounds preposterous to me, but can someone confirm: if I live to 120, can I expect to go through a second round of teething (if indeed I went through a first round)?

Oh, weehocky, if it were an adult with inflamed gums it would be called “dental pain” not “general crankiness”. I swear, some of these experts are idiots!

(She could also be complaining for other reasons as well, like full diapers, dislike of mashed up peas, scary noises, and the like, too. Being a baby is difficult at times)

I remember when me wisdom teeth arrived. It wasn’t agonizing, but it didn’t feel good, either. I could see where getting more or less all your teeth at once would not be fun.

Anyhow, for your next question: Yes, there have been instances of people getting a third or even fourth set of teeth. It’s quite rare, and I know of no way to predict whether or not a particular person will be so blessed. So take care of the choppers you have, one adult set is the most that most of us get.

Sounds like crap to me. One thing I do know - after my kids had grown past teething I had a sore on my gum and used some left over teething ointment to keep it clean. My God that was new adventures in pain, I was almost in tears. If I’d known how much it hurts raw gums I may have tried other things first with the kids.

Your experts used lazy thinking.

Quite often, parents think a child is teething when it is just in a ‘fussy stage’ (the visible marker of cognitive development, which happens in stages, is fussiness… more on that in a moment). More often than not, these developmental stages are blamed on teething, diet (allergies, not enough milk, etc.). But the fussy stages are very orderly in arrival (you can estimate time of arrival and behavior patterns fairly accurately).

However, just because parents often blame teething for fussy stages doesn’t mean teething doesn’t make one cranky. Teething may be pretty much a non-event for some kids, but just because parents blame teething for every other form of fussiness doesn’t mean that tooth-specific reactions aren’t also real.

I can attest to this. I remember teething (I can remember back to about 6 months old). It itches. Sometimes intensely, and often below the gum so that you can’t reach it. It also aches for short spans of time, intermittently (I remember the sensation was the same when my wisdom teeth were coming in - they’d move, then stop, then move, then stop). And it hurts a bit, too, as the teeth come to the surface and cut through. I mostly remember molars and my canines. That urgency to bite and chew is like… well, I guess it qualifies as a physical compulsion - even if I didn’t want to bite something, I couldn’t help myself. I remember chewing one finger raw and chapped, learning to turn it sideways so that I was biting across the knuckle bend instead of down on it (which hurt a lot). I remember the sensory overload of rubbing my fingers on the sore patch of gum, over and over, until the sensation took on a rubbery feel. I can remember the squeaky feeling (can’t remember if it made a squeaky sound, though).

Part of my crankiness was the out-of-control feeling I got, that I couldn’t keep myself from doing things that made them hurt worse sometimes (like biting hard) it hurt, and it felt good at the same time (the way wiggling a loose tooth feels good), but even when I didn’t want to put my sore chapped fingers back in my mouth, I’d find them there. Kind of distressing, considering I was only just getting accustomed to the idea that I was in charge of my body’s movements in the first place. (Though honestly, I also knew that I wasn’t nearly as in charge as I wanted to be - very frustrating to know what you want your body to do and it won’t do it, it just can’t grip hard enough, or stay balanced enough, or be dexterous enough… If I had known how to swear, I’d have been swearing a blue streak, but instead I had to resort to crying in distress and frustration.)

Anyway, if the researchers would just find people who remember the experience, maybe they’d pick up some clues to where to look for more data. Not that my nearly 37-year-old memory qualifies as clinical data, but I sometimes wonder if the fact that most people can’t remember before 2 or 3 years old makes them kind of think that there IS nothing of value before then.

As for the fussy stages, there is one book available in the US that lists them explicitly. The book is based on decent science (but the style is a little fluffy, try to ignore that part), and people tell me over and over that their kids hit those stages like clockwork. The book is The Wonder Weeks by Plooij and … dang, forgot the other name. But you can find it at Amazon (etc.). The main point that parents seem to find useful is that when you are pulling out your hair with frustration, and saying I QUIT (whatever it was that you were doing, like breastfeeding, or responding when she cries, etc.), and are wondering who stole your baby and replaced it with this needy, whiney, crying, clingy monster, you’re about at the end of a stage. Wait about 1-2 weeks, and you’ll have a whole new baby on your hands, with new abilities and comprehension. Oh, and the other thing is that the fussiness appears to be reality-based. That is, they really ARE more scared than before, more confused, more frightened, etc. They aren’t making it up, manipulating you, etc. Again, I can remember those things happening, and it was like the world went from black and white to color, gravity started working for the first time ever, etc. HUGE amounts of re-organizing my reactions, understanding, and sense of self were required each time. Very upsetting.

Thanks, all. We’re up to incisors now - they’re not quite as painful, it seems.

That sounds like its a genetic kink, rather than guaranted, right?

Remarkable.

They used to think babies don’t feel pain, but I had no idea people were going back to that ridiculous idea!

'Course, they also used to think that babies had no individual personalities. Apparently whoever said that never had children. Or even a baby sibling or two.

Right. It’s the dental equivalent of having extra fingers or toes.