Relationship/Life poll

Well, since Poysyn is doing a poll on motherhood, I thought I’d do one of my own. No need to respond to questions you find too personal, but I’m curious.

  1. How many people have you dated?
  2. Are you married? If so, is this your first time?
  3. How many people have you had sex with?
  4. Do you like oral sex? Anal?
  5. Would you go back with an ex, and under what circumstances?
  6. Do you masturbate?
  7. How old are you?
  8. Is it possible for a woman to rape a man? How?
  9. Is it possible for a rapist to be a good person? Is it possible for them to redeem themselves later in life?
  1. 25-35 +/-
  2. twice divorced
  3. 15-20+/-
  4. yes…no
  5. yes…second wife…if she would be willing
  6. yes
    7.46
  7. yes possiblyI supose give the new erectile drugs available
  8. i try not to judge…i supose yes but that is a serious agression.

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  1. 5
  2. No
  3. 6
  4. I don’t mind giving oral. I don’t like receiving it. I’m not too fond of anal.
  5. No, never
  6. Yes
  7. 25
  8. Yes, holding him emotionally captive, toying with him, forcing his body to react in a way he doesn’t want to. I think it’s very, very rare, though.
  9. Yes and maybe

Really? That’s an unusual opinion. Care to elaborate?

  1. ~10-15
  2. N
  3. ~10
  4. Yes. Meh.
  5. I’ve done it. Boredom.
  6. Yes.
  7. 30
  8. Technically, yes I suppose. Anally with a dildo is one way.
  9. I don’t know and yes.

Depends on the definition of “rape.” A woman could easily sexually assault a man.

  1. Maybe 30
  2. Yes, yes
  3. 12
  4. Yes, yes
  5. No
  6. Yes
  7. 38
  8. Yes- knowingly causing another person to engage in a sexual act by force or threat. There are plenty of ways a woman could commit this act against a man.
  9. I suppose, and yes.
  1. Maybe 5, maybe 10. Depends on your definition of dating.
  2. Yup and yup
  3. 20ish
  4. Yup and nope
  5. I have. I married her.
  6. Sure
  7. 29
  8. Absolutely. A possible scenario: Man gets drunk, crashes in 3 female’s apartment. One single female thinks sex with drunk man would be fun, gets other two roommates to help transfer drunk man to single female’s room (drunk male doesn’t wake up). Roommates leave, single female strips male, plays with various parts till they’re ready, hops on and goes to town. Male wakes up from drunken stupor to find himself having sex with someone he’s never even seen before (sex without consent = rape). Next day, asks what happened, and is told all this by the 3 females. Male thinks it’s really weird, but doesn’t make a big deal out of it.
  9. Yes, it is possible. People do stupid things.
  1. 3
  2. I would be, but being gay I’m not able. been with my partner 5 years
  3. after reading the other answers, I’ll just say it’s more than any of them
  4. yes, yes
  5. no
  6. yes
  7. 30
  8. yes, by having sex with him without his consent.
  9. I consider rape an unforgiveable crime, along with murder and kidnapping. I feel all three should be punishable by the death penalty.
  1. Maybe 12. Half of those were experimental dates from Lavalife that didn’t work out.
  2. No.
    1. Got close another time, though.
  3. Yes. No (ugh).
  4. Don’t know. It seems very unlikely though.
  5. Yes.
  6. Yes. Drugs, duplicity, and distraction.
  7. Yes (unlikely); maybe (very difficult).
  1. How many people have you dated? 3
  2. Are you married? If so, is this your first time? No
  3. How many people have you had sex with? 1
  4. Do you like oral sex? Anal? Yes and yes.
  5. Would you go back with an ex, and under what circumstances? I have limited experience so this response may not be a true representation of my feelings, but probably not.
  6. Do you masturbate? Yes
  7. How old are you? 20
  8. Is it possible for a woman to rape a man? How? Yes - strap-ons!
  9. Is it possible for a rapist to be a good person? Is it possible for them to redeem themselves later in life? Yes and yes, at a guess. I don’t know of any good examples, though.

**1. How many people have you dated? **Maybe 20. Depends what you mean by “date.”
**2. Are you married? If so, is this your first time? **No, our state constitution forbids us to marry.
**3. How many people have you had sex with? **Thousands.
**4. Do you like oral sex? Anal? **Oral.
**5. Would you go back with an ex, and under what circumstances? **Probably not.
**6. Do you masturbate? **Of course.
**7. How old are you? **60.5, today.
**8. Is it possible for a woman to rape a man? How? **Yes, any sex that is non-consensual is rape.
**9. Is it possible for a rapist to be a good person? Is it possible for them to redeem themselves later in life? **I don’t believe s/he can be a good person at the time of the rape, but we all have free will, and people can change.