Can’t pay the cheapest rents in NYC at age 35, huh? I can see why you girls wanted him so bad. He sounds like a real winner.
Now that a bit more of the story’s come out, I just wanted to share what I’m observing here. You are 6 years older than this girl, obviously you felt like you had to ‘‘rescue’’ her and take her under your wing… your sense of responsibility for her is palpable in every post you make. You’ve put up with a colossal amount of bullshit from her because you feel for her – and that’s no surprise at all, it happens to the best of us.
(Oh, but as an aside… she told someone you RAPED her!!! WTF?!! WHY DID YOU MOVE IN WITH THIS PSYCHO??)
Now this petty boy drama happens and you suddenly have a perfect excuse to throw her out on her ass. I don’t think you want the boy so much as you want to get the hell out of an emotionally draining situation and have a convenient, self-righteous excuse to do it.
Which is wise, but I promise you that doing petty things like not ‘‘allowing’’ him over is not only immature and unfair, it will cause even more suffering to you both. She has already done plenty of damage to your relationship, there is absolutely no point in you damaging it some more. And the guy you ‘‘hate,’’ BTW, didn’t really do anything wrong except possibly hook-up with a crazy bitch, which he will soon regret, no doubt.
You say you’ve been acting the part of the ‘‘responsible’’ one… so just continue to do so, admit you lost a round in this chick’s confusing game, get over it (the boy thing, not her general insanity) and start making plans to get the hell out.
What? I didn’t see that. What?
Buried near the bottom of this post. Which makes me think…I dunno. Seems like the whole “my roommate’s dating a guy that I liked, but who’s really a loser, but I’m mad about it anyways” shouldn’t be the primary reason for the thread title.
and yet it is, repeatedly. Except that no, it’s not the fact that she’s doing it (huh) but how she did it. Yea.
Uh, is this the one who masturbates in her sleep and then told you you were masturbating in your sleep? Girl has issues, methinks. I mean, she told friends you raped her? And you’re surprised she’s dating this guy? I think you’ve got way more to worry about than her dating this guy…