My girlfriend occasionally wants me to to inflict some pain during sex, but she does not want bruising to be visible. We enjoy dominant-submissive role playing and some bondage, but she is very concerned about others seeing bruising and bite marks on her body from spanking and biting when she is at work or at the gym. What ways are there to inflict pain either through intercourse or externally that won’t leave bruising?
Nipple clamps.
Thanks. But nipples don’t bruise? What other places and methods can provide pain without bruising?
Have you tried the Literotica forums? Not that I think you won’t get an answer here, but you’re way more likely to get one there, and from people who have tried it, too. It’s www.literotica.com. NSFW.
Hot wax.
My dad was raised in an orphans’ home long ago, and when a kid screwed up there, they beat him with a rubber hose, supposedly because it didn’t leave marks. If you’re into pain, that might be what you are looking for.
I feel a little squirmy telling you that as useful information, but that’s what you asked for.
I thought you said that she was just concerned about visible bruising. Does she work topless?
I have a wee leather flogger that inflicts a delightful sting, but doesn’t seem to bruise.
Hey- thanks!
do rubber hoses actually not bruise or is just reduced bruising? sorry if you feel squirmy, but she asked me if i would do it.
I assume that they could bruise, like any other part of the body, but nipple clamps normally don’t leave marks.
thanks for the literotica link. i think it may help. and thanks for all the other advice
Soft-tipped floggers won’t make long-lasting marks. Pinching and hand-spanking won’t, either, unless you get really enthusiastic. Riding crop marks fade after a couple of hours except if you accidently hit with the rod–that leaves a welt that can last longer.
I would think anything used in a whip motion would leave a bruise or welt.
The old “police brutality” way of inflicting pain without marks is to use a thick phone book. A brief explanation is to hold the book firmly against the person and pound on the book. The force is transfered but usually doesn’t leave marks. This can, however, cause internal damage if you pound to hard.
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Since bruising is caused by broken blood vessels, and that takes a pretty good impact, no worries with nipple clamps. Just be warned that nipple clamps actually hurt way more when you take them off than while they’re on. They force the blood out of the clamped area, and when you take them off the blood rushes back in and that hurts.
In any case, if the clamps did somehow cause bruising, it would be camouflaged by the color of her areolae anyway.
Also keep in mind that there are other fun places for clamps EG
If she is interested in being spanked with a heavy implement, such as a paddle, you’ll want to warm her up first. This means a nice, long hand-spanking. And I mean “warm her up” literally. Find a good steady rhythm, and cover her entire butt with hand spanks. Keep it up until her cheeks are an even pink all over, and you can feel the heat in her skin. Make sure her skin is hot to the touch! The hand spanking doesn’t need to be especially hard, but you’ll need to spank either harder or longer to achieve the desired effect.
Once her bottom is nice and hot, then you can proceed with the paddle, hairbrush, or whatever. The warmup hand spanking will have increased blood flow in her skin and will actually reduce bruising from the paddle.
Another solution is to look for something called “arnica cream”. Rubbing this on her butt immediately after the spanking reduces the chance of bruising.
If she wants to avoid blunt instruments, but a hand spanking isn’t intense enough for her, try a little Tabasco sauce rubbed onto her cheeks after the spanking. Warning: Be very careful that the Tabasco sauce doesn’t drip down toward her “girly bits”. Just take my word on that.
Have a look into the literature about TENS units, also light weight elasticy floggers give sharp pain without bruising.
I’ve been asking the missus this same question for YEARS!!!
tens unit or a violet ray generator for electricity. it wont leave a mark, but is pretty painfully pleasing.
clothes pins
hot wax, but make sure you oil up the spot where you are going to drip the wax.
there are ways to tie someone up so they must continiously use energy to avoid other (internal or external) discomforts, which won’t bruse. If you go this route she will have such a muscle burn that she won’t need to work out 