niblet_head, WELCOME!
For me, plain and simply, I got sick and tired of being sick and tired. I bought a pair of jeans just before NYDope last year, and they were a size 24. Twenty-Four.
I looked at the pictures from NYDope, and then the later pictures from Opal’s birthday party in mid-February, and was pretty disgusted with how bad I looked. I had always been a pretty girl, if chunky. Having online people stroke your ego doesn’t help either - they tell you you’re hot and no, no, you’re not too fat at all, you’re just fine…I knew I had gained some weight, but I had no idea how much. I was shocked when I weighed myself at the end of February when the pictures went up - I weighed 36 pounds more than I thought I did, and even what I thought I weighed was way too much.
My husband (Weirddave) is a great cook. Unfortunately, I was a great eater, and in a huge soul-crushing depression after picking up and moving from Canada to Maryland. I just let myself get fatter and fatter until one day, it was just enough.
Those jeans I bought in size 24 were stretchy jeans from Lane Bryant. Yesterday, I went into Lane Bryant and put on a pair of size 14 non-stretch. I can not tell you how good that made me feel.
I’ve lost 58 pounds. I have around 30 to go. If I can do this, anyone can do this, and let me give you a bit of advice, if you don’t mind (well. I’ll give it anyway). YOU are the only person who can do this. Your husband, or your SO, or your mother or best friend can’t do this for you. YOU need to decide to do it, and then do it. YOU have to be tenacious, YOU have to just say no to when people offer sweets, an extra helping of something.
I have said it before, but I will say it again. I didn’t realize what a pit bull I can be until I started dieting. Oh sure, I knew that I’ve always been a ‘just do it if it needs doing’ person, but this has blown me away.
I have amazed myself, I have lost ~23% of my beginning body weight and 40". I’m stronger and healthier and weigh less than I have in my whole adult life. My face has changed and thinned out. My hair is healthier, my nails are stronger, I don’t break out as much, my periods are more regular, I don’t have the hip and knee creaks that have plagued me for the last few years.
I’m me, but better. And we’ll help you do the same thing.
One other thing: Because you’re doing WW, you CAN have that treat if you want it. You can have a cheesesteak (13 points) or cheesecake (~9 points) or the cheeseburger (oy. don’t have the double) if you want. You have the flex points, and you can exercise to gain more - don’t deny yourself. I was a point Nazi at the beginning, and 1- and 2-pointed to death. Don’t deny yourself, or you may fall off the plan entirely.
Good luck! We’re here to help.