No, Needs2Know, the cause is NOT the polygamist lifestyle. There are many polygamous families who don’t commit abuse and incest. The cause isn’t even the Mormon polygamist lifestyle. Altho it can be argued that the patriarchal tenets of LDS beliefs promote wife & child abuse, the same argument can easily be made for ALL of the Judaic-based religions (and some others), whether marriage is monogamous or not.
The PROBLEMS are incest and domestic abuse. The SYMPTOMS are the bruises and scars, mental and physical, which these traumas leave. These situations should be handled as they are in every other family where they occur. If you can find a single root cause for these common problems, you’re doing astoundingly better than the thousands of mental health care professionals, social workers, shelter workers, etc. etc. etc., who deal with these problems every day.
Oh, yeah, I can feel your empathy and understanding from here. With ‘friends’ like you… :rolleyes:
Oh, and before you ask: No, I am not nor will I ever be a Latter Day Saint.
As do I.
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Duck Duck Goose, do you see a problem with the fact the US legislature, judicial system and executive branch are CHOCK FULL of Christians? What about the rights of all the non-Christians around? Isn’t that a problem by your standards?
To combine the two issues:
Please justify, considering the First and Fourteenth Amendments, the legal ratification of certain religious beliefs that has caused and maintained a system wherein multiple-partner marriages are disallowed. Explain how this legal discrimination does NOT constitute ‘establishment of religion’.
In other words, why can’t Mormons (and anyone else) legally marry as many times as they want? As with most consensual ‘crimes’, this would eliminate most of the fraud and probably much of the domestic abuse that you mention.
(NOTE: I am not talking about fraudulent marriages, wherein a person misrepresents themselves as single to their betrothed. That is fraud and should be prosecuted as such. Nor am I addressing ‘child’ marriage - again, age of consent laws should be enforced appropriately.)
Or should this go to the other thread?