At least I can’t imagine that the problem is lack of arousal on her part. Your prose style alone makes me want a cigarette.
First thing, congratulations Dude! Many men wish they can find such a woman.
Would you need to do is buy several dildoes of different sizes. Work her way up until she feels comfortable with your penis size.
Meanwhile, as for your pleasure, this is a good excuse for her to continue giving you blowjobs.
Anyone else reminded of that segment from “Lies and the Lying Liars Who Tell Them” about O’Reilly’s book’s sex scene? 
OT: if your dick isn’t unreasonably massive, it’s probably her. If you can fit it in her at all, but can’t get past the hymen, try breaking that with something smaller. Consider investing in a vibrator for her, or visiting an OB/GYN as others have recommended. Best of luck to you either way.
I had the same problem with my high school GF. I am not a freak of nature (a little girthier than average) but it just wouldn’t go in.
We never did get past it (as school kids), but we both got to be very good at oral 
There are vaginal dilator sets sold as treatment for vaginismus that you might want to check out.
use lube and two fingers. you may need to break the hymen that way. her pinching her nipples as a distraction may also help.
if you are using a condom for birth control then don’t count on it being good after entering her the first time. it may rip and tear in the process. after entering but before further activity you should withdraw and replace the condom.
Am I seriously the only person who read this and thought “Huh, someone left their browser open. At least it’s not about sheep…”?
Just so you don’t feel alone I’ll admit that was my reaction as well, especially given the stereotype eliciting username.
Actually, reading the OP again, there is nothing in it that explicitly rules out sheep.
Given the definition you provided, in what way is it an inappropriate use of the term?
It’s possible for a woman to be technically “frigid” without the hangups we associate with that. That is, she can be hot and ready and willing, but her pubic muscles just aren’t complying. The best way to get past that is to relax, not worry, realize it’s reasonably normal, and try some patient persistence, with a liberal application of understanding and empathy. Liquor can sometimes help. There are benefits to this “malady”.
Unless your phallus is significantly bigger around than her fist, I doubt that this is a simple “parts don’t fit” issue. Sure, an episiotomy is required for childbirth. Babies heads tend to be over 4" in diameter.
This OP from someone whose username is “black man” spelled backwards. OK.
I LOLed.
Anyway, yeah, stealth brag. I did have this happen my first few attempts (I’m the woman, so I’m not stealth bragging) and then we eventually figured it out. I doubt it’s that unusual and making a big thing of it will just build it up to be a bigger problem than it needs to be.
Quiet! as a tall guy, this is ignorance that I am not in a rush to fight, besides, it is still debatable.
Thanks, I have separately brought her to orgasm with my fingers and tongue before, I will follow your advice next time.
Yes, she really likes me stroking with my fingers, she did a lot of cycling when she was younger, so I was assuming her hymen was already broken.
So what you are saying is I should encourage her to explore herself herself.
:eek:
Okay, it’s good to know that other couples got through this problem. My penis isn’t freakishly large, it’s just proportionate to my body, so 7" or so.
Okay, I guess we’ve got a lifetime to work up to it. I’ll continue with my fingers.
Good advice
No, I assumed my penis was average for my tall height, but perhaps a bit too big to fit in a 4’10" tall girl.
I did take Broomsticks advice, and I am proud to say I’m a lot more well hung than any of the newborns I got to examine before the police arrived.
This seems like it would work, I’ll experiment with fingering and post-orgasm sex first, but I’ll definately try your advice before going to a gynaecologist
All good adivce, you saved us from a very sticky situation.
sheep??? :eek:
So take it slow. I’ll massage her instead of giving her alcohol, as [strikethrough] I am not sure I can keep hard if I am squify.[/strikethrough] I mean, I don’t wanna do anything that won’t make her first time memorable.
It’s good to hear other couples have got through this issue.
When you include all humans, including females, in your statistics of penis size, all men are indeed above average.
My suggestion to the OP is to send the GF to my house. I just got in a bottle of medicinal 20 year old brandy.
An athletic individual should be able to naturally adjust his/her position during sex. I’ve had sex with a woman one head taller and a one nearly a foot shorter. Well, both were experienced.
was this a two headed woman or two women with a height difference?
I think two women come to mind much sooner.
I’m trying to visualize this. You and grandma and perhaps gramps, too, are spending an afternoon together. Maybe you’re on the front porch sitting on the swing on a warm summer day. You’re sipping lemonade and enjoying each other’s company when they start this conversation.
Er…sure, why not.
Start off slow. Make sure she’s relaxed and turned on. Begin with just one finger, and gradually add more. Then work them in a little at a time and then start going deeper. You will be able to tell if she’s truly relaxed by the pressure on your hand. Communicate with each other and then try again. Good luck!
Wow. Gross.
Not just some. Not just a fair amount. But a lot. She knows a lot about her grandparents’ bumping uglies. Interesting family.
He isn’t making it up, he’s a Black Man! 