I think more women are submissive than men, but by no means most.
Me too.
I’m not what I would call ‘dominant’ or aggressive sexually, but I haven’t been submissive to the partners I’ve had. And many of my female friends seem to enjoy taking charge. I can’t see a clear majority.
I think a lot of women start of being submissive, as teens or young women, not because they crave being dominated but because they’re terrified of speaking up. Being dominant in bed means you really want sex (and weren’t just talked or ‘tricked’ into it by some guy who’s read Maxim), and could very well be a slut. Still a major concern for teens everywhere, pathetically.
There are definitely women who like being dominated in bed, often because they are very dominant out of the bedroom (and sometimes with a teensy bit of laziness thrown in), but there are also women who have never had an orgasm and are too shy or afraid to ask for what they like.
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Why are you asking, real men don’t use “if.” You should be TELLING the ladies to submit a pm/email to you and TELLING them when their scheduled appointment/try out is. Dominate man, dominate.
Sheesh, do I have to do everything myself?
p.s. please don’t tell my Mommy or girlfriend I said that, okay?
Dude, that would skew the results, and only half the ladies would sign up.
Some are, some aren’t. You can’t generalize.
I disagree.
Based on my personal experiences, the trend is definitely for the woman to be submissive even if outside of the sex she is not.
True. If the woman loves me back, I’ll take what comes.
You just had your back waxed, didn’t you?
~runs away~
I have a submissive personality in general. When other people are happy, I’m happy. I’m non confrontational and the opposite of a control freak. If someone gets pissed at me, my first instinct is to apologize, only to later determine I did nothing wrong. :smack:
Weirdly, the only place I’m not that way is in the every day workings of my marriage. I’m pretty assertive about my own needs when it comes to my husband. Not unkind or demanding - just assertive. I would even say aggressive. I am the one who approached him about a relationship, after all. I have always been this way, ever since I jerked my second grade boyfriend behind the bleachers and kissed him because I was sick of waiting around for him to make a move!
But sexually, I’m as submissive as they come. I’m not into pain/humiliation, but domination, yes. Very much yes.
While both men and women have submission fantasies I’m pretty sure they are more common among women - or at least women feel more free to admit them to researchers!
This, I did not read as you intended.
Hey, $2 extra “Hot Wax” at the car wash…why not? 
(the huge Ceiling Loofah hurt like Bitch though…but the towel off by 8 people at the end was a nice touch.)
Heh, I thought it clearly meant handjob until I read your comment, re-read her post, and considered she may have just meant she pulled him behind the bleachers to kiss him. Which is nowhere near as good a story.