Bolding mine.
Wow.
Wow, wow, and wow.
I lived on a college campus for about a year of my life and teabagging was almost a way of life. Granted I’m a guy and this was in guy dorms, everyone got it at least once. Were people mad at the time they found out? Sure. Did people laugh it off? Sure. Did anyone get so outraged they saw it as sexual assult or illegal in any way? Not even close. I was a on the pranking end a few times myself. It’s like depantsing someone.
I dunno, I’ve read half this thread so far and it just seems that most guys in college are used to this or are aware of this practice and are, for the most part, okay with it. Sorry, no cite. I cannot show you that guys do teabag other guys and that everyone, in the end, is okay with it…because unfortunatly it’s just one of those things I’ve seen with my own eyes and experieced a hundred times, but not the sort of thing they make a website with FAQS about.
What I think is that the guys in question were used to it and, to them, it was sort of “the norm” so they didn’t have any problem doing it to a female. Immature, gross, and stupid? All of them yes. Sexual assault? Couldn’t say. I’m sure people who are outraged will find laws to say it is, though. Rape or anything like that? No, and anyone who even compares the two is illreproachable themselves.
I have no beef with you or this trainwreck but just wanted to point out that, yeah, teabagging does occur, and quite often. Again, no cite, but my own experience shows me it is. It happens a lot that I’ve heard about and seen myself with guys doing it to other guys.
So I think astro’s point was, in this case we have a guy doing it to a girl and people are outraged and say it’s wrong, yet guys do it to other guys in frats and dorms all the time and nobody ever raises a fuss. Therefore why is it deemed not as big of a deal in one case and not the other.
Again, I think what they did was wrong and childish, but I can see the point astro and ybeayf were making.