By the time I managed to wrap my mind around the idea of a living, breathing man that doesn’t enjoy blowjobs, I would probably be dead and the marriage issue would be moot.
Personally, I think BJ’s are over rated and not any better than a handjob . To me straight intercourse preferably without a condom (and no withdrawal) is far superior. Now if I ever had one involving swallowing (or at least doing my business in the mouth) that might make a difference.
Also, I would consider marrying someone who didn’t even like sex, uh … wait a second I already did!
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Hm, I never thought I was that different, but I have always finished the guy with my mouth [ok, except for a few times where he wanted to shoot somewhere else, or go from getting a blowjob to straight screwing without releasing first] it is just really messy not to. I either swallow or spit discretely into a paper towel.
OK, you say that you would rather just have intercourse and have apparently never finished off orally. Those guys that have finished orally, how would you describe the difference between orgasm through oral sex, and regular intercourse? Is one better than the other [all other things remaining the same]
Yes on every occassion that I’ve had a BJ both from my wife, and from the approximately eight girlfriends I had previously it was always in the context of a prelude to sex. I guess my attitude is that if I have to wait for sex anyway (to get my release) then let’s just get down to business.
I actually had in mind a situation I was in. Me (dude) with otherwise perfect dudette who had no problem with giving BJs whatsoever but who had a bit of a double standard going concerning receiving oral - she was so irked by the idea that it was completely banned. Never got close to doing it, even though I wanted to and generally enjoy doing that. Having said that, she couldn’t have been otherwise perfect if we broke up, I guess.