Sexual terms and lack of knowledge.

BDSM:

Bondage & Discipline
Domination & Submission
Sado - Masochism

Yes folks, it’s a combination of all three pain-related practices. I found that out from the internet, one of the few sex terms I didn’t know a few years ago.

There’s nothing shy about you, girl! :smiley:

Actually, some of these words are synonyms, so everything you have said would fit equally well.
Discipline = Domination & Submission
Bondage can be a part of discipline.

Yup. That’s exactly what it is.
God, I hope my mother never stumbles across this board and figures out who I am. Then I’d have to explain how I know all this crap.

The fetish angle of it, from what I’ve always heard, involves rubbing up against total strangers in crowded places; particularly males “accidentally” rubbing up against female backsides.

Always happy to help.

Actually, NONE of these have to involve pain, and it is only Sado Masochism that generally involves pain. Domination & Submission generally does not involve pain… it involves control. Bondage doesn’t always or generally involve discipline. The entire topic of BDSM isn’t as simple as people think, nor are the people in it what most would imagine. They are generally include the most intelligent people I have ever met. Don’t judge a book by its leather cover…

ARRGGH!! MUST we use this term?? :mad: :confused:

[sub] I wouldn’t be so defensive if I were actually getting any! Frottage would probably be a “World-Series-Winning-Walk-Off-Grand-Slam” for me, right about now![/sub]

What?!? You’re against “DRY-humping”? If it makes you feel any better, it ain’t dry if you do it long enough…

::runs away! runs away!::

If I did it long enough, I wouldn’t be “against it”, would I??

On the other hand, if I were “against it”, I’d be “doing it”, wouldn’t I??
[sub] I’m starting to feel like the android Norman, at the end of the Star Trek episode, I, Mudd (“Everything I tell you is a lie”) [/sub]

Yep, yep, ya gotta do it against something or you’d be against doing it…

[sub]Now I’m feeling like someone in that other STAR TREK episode: Mudd’s Women. I’m feeling like feeling them against me…ARGH!!![/sub]

Sorry for the late reply, but I’m doin’ fine :smiley:

Why is it that a lot of “adults” don’t know a lot of “sexual” terms that most children and teens know today?
I think it’s because a lot of adults don’t pay as close attention as teens and children.

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It’s been awhile, but I just wanted to say: “Thanks for noticing. I think.”

I’m only 15 and I guess you’d say I was sheltered as far as my family, but I must say that just about all my sexual knowledge would have come from my friends. I really think parents aren’t comfortable talking about it with their kids, I never got “the talk” either but as of now I’m up to date on most sexual acts/terms :slight_smile:

Thank you Hastur.

DRY, love, there is an easy fix to your troubles…

Once again, I say to thee:

PROMISES, PROMISES!!

Re the OP, IIRC, I read in one of the People’s Almanacs that Charlie Chaplin was asked whether he’d ever performed oral sex on his wife (or had it performed on him). I believe this was in connection with a divorce proceeding.

Anyway, his reply, which scandalized people at the time, was:

“Don’t all married couples do that?” :eek: :smiley:

I don’t know how I missed this thread back when it started, but it makes me even MORE insulted that someone on these boards called me a liar when I said that I had explained the meanings of “fellatio,” “cunnilingus,” “voyeurism,” and “exhibitionism” to a bunch of people when I was in high school. It was implied that the people at my school were either backwards hicks with no access (or desire for access) to reading material, or that I was a big liar trying to pretend I had been some sort of adolescent Dr. Ruth.

I have nothing to add to the conversation, but DAMN, do I ever feel vindicated.

He obviously didn’t watch Moonlighting. There was one scene where David must’ve said ‘boink’ a dozen times to Maddie. Hilarious!

…I know how important sex is […] and I would use a protective dildo.

The growing pains of Adrian Mole

That book was some funny shit…