No, that is not remotely an accurate respresentation of what happened. You casually threw in a homophobic joke in your OP, then got butthurt and doubled down when you got called on it. You set up and then worsened the derailment of your own thread.
Rather than hijack this thread further with the fact that a month later you apparently still can’t let it go and concede that this kind of casually bigoted joke is something to remove from your repertoire, here’s the thread in question so anyone can judge for themselves. I would think this conversation should continue on that thread if you feel the need to do so.