Should I accept defeat? (daughter's school placement)long

Congratulations!!!

YWTF, I was thisclose to sending you a PM, leaning on you. But OtakuLoki took the brunt for ya.

YAY!! I’m so glad for your daughter! :slight_smile:

Congratulations. That’s, great news.
Now I’m starting to wonder if there IS something up with that VP. That’s really weird. Personally, I would find him and personally confront him as soon as I could (he can’t avoid you now), but that’s just me. I would have to know what his deal was. I have an inability to let things like that go.

YAAAAAH! That’s great news! Congrats! And best of luck to your daughter! :smiley:
And it was my pleasure to be available for you to vent on, Nzinga.

I was just dropping in to exhort you to accept defeat. Guess I’m too late!

That is fantabulous news, and you and she must be so relieved!

I have to admit that I am a vindictive bitch, and would probably want to track down that VP and make him tell me WTF was up. But that’s not a good example for your daughter, so don’t do that. :slight_smile:

Heeee! It is a celebration up in this here cubicle today!

Dio, I appreciated your input in this thread a great deal.
Shodan, your advice was spot on. A bit late, but perfect and inspiring advice
OtakuLoki, you already know how messed up I was about this. Thanks for listening.
VT, stop cracking me up!
All you guys, I’m grinning the goofiest buck tooth grin right now.

My sister was worried sick about this whole thing. I have allowed her to be the one to give my daughter the good news. She is going to go tell her now.

This VP dude is all kinds of shady. On the email the chief sent me, the principal at SOTA was copied in, but not the VP. Hmmm. They know he was wrong.

woo hoo–I have been reading this thread and am glad you got what you and your daughter needed. Congrats!

Hooray for Nzinga! And 'grats to Lil Zing.

Remember this in the future. IMO, Shodan had it exactly right.

Polite, persistent, never go away.

The chief probably took one look at your case and saw shenanigans written all over it.

The next time you see that VP, please give him a side eye for me.

At the risk of sounding paranoid, I’d be really leery about continuing to confront that VP, myself. You’ve gotten what you want - your daughter in the school.

I don’t trust that VP, and would be very concerned about giving him a reason to make getting your daughter back out of the school his personal project. Would it be petty, unreasonable, and even evil? Hell, yes. That doesn’t mean he’s not capable of it. He’s already responded in a couple of ways that leave me questioning his integrity and his ability to separate the personal and the professional.
(A caveat: I do not trust school administrators, as a general rule. This attitude of mine is based on personal experience, and may not be a good fit for the general case. I figure you ought to know where my advice is coming from, so you may judge whether you care to follow it, or not.)

OK, can I just say that I am having an exceptionally shitty week, up there in the great pantheon of shitty weeks as weeks go in fact, and this has seriously made my day. Seriously.

I agree to keep your eye on this VP though. The whole thing sounded pretty shady.

Wow, just read the whole thread now. $10 says the VP ain’t the VP within a year. That’s pretty much gross incompetence as well as a lot of ass-saving stuff going on.

Glad it worked out.

Orientation is tonight. If I see the VP, I know that the best fuckyou to him is a big grin on me and my kid’s face. Nothing more needed.

My baby just called me all giddy with excitement. I had to leave work early to get ready for orientation…the kid will be here in a minute and we can walk up there.

Heh, I never knew how affected my husband really was by this until I told him the nightmare is over.

MsWhatsit, I sure hope your week improves. I’m so happy my news put a smile on your face.

Congrats! This is such great news. I look forward to one day reading Lil Zing’s stuff for myself. :slight_smile:

Yay! Congratulations to you and Lil’ Zing! I was waiting for an update and this is a great one - I hope she loves the school.

Would you mind giving us a rundown of the orientation and how you and Lil Zing (great name) feel afterwards? Just to continue the woohoo vibe? Also, please let us know if you see Shady VP there.

I love a happy ending!

Shodan, that was a really great post of advice.

Thanks. I want to correct some things I may have said that I feel bad about now, with a clearer head. I made it seem as if the other schools were trash. Turns out, that’s not true. I spoke to a few people who showed me that Wilson Magnet school has a great advanced placement program and some impressive rankings. I didn’t research that throroughly before slandering the other schools.

For my kid, SOTA absolutely is the choice.