Ok, I’ll try not to be so sensitive. I am overly sensitive though but at least I know and admit it.
Thank you to those who don’t think I’m lying.
For those wondering, we chat with icq. You can just leave the window open while you’re doing other things on the computer or around the house. There is no “how r u, i m gr8” we speak in full sentences.
I do know that even if we meet and decide to date, that it’s not going to be a long term relationship. I’ve told him that things being what they are, I am not able to build a life with him.
I have considered the possibility that he might be the one to meet me and think “meh, not my type”. I would be surprised but it could happen. I don’t know how I’d feel about that. I’d probably be all insulted “well I never!” 
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So we’ll see what happens in November and, if anybody seems interested in knowing, I’ll post the details.