This is suggested by the other current thread:
Would you date a 40-year-old virgin man?
Yup. For about 15 minutes.
I am irresistable.
If she was a nice person, why not.
Absolutely.
Does she want to remain a virgin?
Wow, there could be way too much baggage associated with her being a virgin, and it would take too long to find out. My answer is it’s best to avoid that situation.
I wouldn’t currently because 40 is too far from my own age. But were there no age difference, then, sure, depending on circumstances. If she was otherwise a good fit, just happened never to have had sex before for whatever reason, and did not wish to remain as such, it would be a picayune issue to make a deal-breaker.
(It would be quite odd, of course. I just think I could manage sympathy for someone I otherwise clicked with.)
A young woman like that? Sure.
But, really, I don’t care if she’s a virgin or not, and it would not have the slightest influence on my decision.
I wouldn’t say never but I couldn’t see it happening. All the most likely reasons would either make her incompatable or just not worth the trouble.
Two 20-year-old virgins would be more preferable.
All other things being equal, I don’t see why not. It’s neither a deal-breaker nor an incentive.
Assuming that she is personable, bright and attractive, I still would most likely not date her because I’m not interested in someone who would not have personal relationship skills. Be friends with her? Sure. Date her, no. I’m not looking for a rescue project.
For casual sex, there’s too high a risk of her being teh crazy. To suddenly want to go from decades of chastity to casual sex doesn’t pass the sniff test. I’d be concerned that casual sex wouldn’t be so casual for her, which could then create an embuggerance for me.
Either way, the risk/reward ratio isn’t favourable.
Yes, you’ve made that joke.
If we are only dating why would this matter at all? Isn’t this the part of a relationship where people find out about each other?
Virginity has nothing to do with if I want to date someone or not. The age is a factor though.
Sure, as long as there’s a possibility for sex somewhere down the line.
I wouldn’t date an asexual woman though.
You’re really stereotyping here.
You’re allowed to stereotype and discriminate and handwave when you’re dating. It prevents the awkward crisis where you realize you wasted a significant amount of time blazing past red flags to pursue an unhealthy relationship with someone you’re in no way compatible with and don’t even like.
You’re allowed to do whatever you want when you’re dating; you have complete veto. But let’s not forget that it rather sucks for the woman if she is ubiquitously stereotyped as something she isn’t.