I’m just curious, what sort of plan do you have to “get back at him”? 
Does it involve a pet rabbit and a pot of boiling water?
LOL true you have a point
I *was *going to make a fake online profile and try to deceive him but I don’t think that’s such a good Idea, b/c it could backfire and make me look worse:eek:
Once again, thanks to everyone who posted…I’ve decided to take the high road and just move on with my life…it’s not worth it, he’s not worth it.
Good to hear. I’ll say the same as everybody else–let it go, and move on. Living well is the best revenge.
Just read this thread by the same OP:
OK, it’s a woman, but between her not being cool with the acquaintance and this thread, I wondered if she had second plans on not taking revenge…
This is wise, and I think you’ve made a good decision.
It’s natural to feel hurt when we’ve been treated badly, and sometimes the feeling lasts for a while. This is normal. Still, the best gift you can give yourself is to forgive the offender. I know someone who still holds a grudge over something that happened more than 20 years ago! I can assure you, it’s torn him up way more than it’s had any effect on the other person. It’s a sad way to live.
So, nurse the hurt for a reasonable time, move on as you’ve stated, and your life will be the better for it. You may even see this dipwad on the receiving end of karma someday, but even if you don’t, just enjoying your life without being dragged down by negative feelings is a fine way to live.
I am totally not following you here.
Does one need a prescription for a baseball bat?
There’s an old saying, “Two wrongs don’t make a right.”
Of course there’s another saying
“Sometimes two wrongs cancel each other out.” 
Well, she talked about getting revenge and now she’s going to visit someone in the hospital who had an accident…on first glance it sort of looked like this was the guy from the OP.
No. One needs an alibi.
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Okay, but on second glance it seems you noticed the person in the hospital was a woman, thus not the guy in the OP, so I’m wondering why mention it at all? (Not meaning to give you a hard time, it just doesn’t make sense to me.)
I just read that other thread right after this one and when I noticed it was the same OP, it got me thinking. I didn’t realize it was a woman till I read the OP the second time so it seemed way freakier in my head than it actually was I suppose.
As Chris Isaak says, “I don’t need a lawyer to do the job of a two-by-four.”
Creatively-placed dead fish have been known to work wonders.
If he is only interested in playing you and embarassing you, the best thing to do is to just end it now. And if you DO want your revenge, there’s nothing better you can do than that either. You walking away BEFORE you get played and embarassed means that he failed and thus lost. Any kind other sort of reaction, whether its particularly emotional response or an attempt at revenge means that you were ultimately played and embarassed because it got to you, and though he may not have succeeded in whatever his end goal was, he at least got something.
So true, can’t give him that satisfaction:(
Nah, I didn’t want to do physical damage to him, just emotional.