Yes the smokers are wrong for congregating in the doorway, fouling up the air for everyone entering or exiting the building.
Yes they are breaking the rules by being within 25 feet of the doorway.
Yes I think smoking is a smelly disgusting habit and one whiff starts me gasping, coughing and wheezing. If it was up to me, everyone would quit this unsavory practice.
But at the same time, I realize that I cannot control another person’s behavior; I can only control the way I react to it. I would remind the smokers of the rules once and let them know how their smoking affects me but if that didn’t work, I would just let it go with the knowledge that I tried and cover my mouth and nose as I walked quickly by them.
I doubt that confronting the smokers who are already pissed about being made to stand in the cold will get you anywhere. They already know they are breaking the rules. Do you think that reminding them of that fact will make them move farther away? In a perfect world everyone would follow the rules but …
In the end you have to take responsibility for your disease and take whatever steps you need to do to avoid exposure to your triggers.
I wish that just once a smoker could feel what it is like to have bronchospasms brought on by exposure to cigarette smoke. I wish they could feel how terrifying it is to gasp for air. I wish they could experience the feeling of having their lungs fill with mucus and how horrible it feels to cough and cough until you wet your pants while trying to clear your lungs of the mucus. I wish they would have to try to sleep sitting up in a chair because they can’t breath when they lay flat. I wish they could experience the nightmare that is high dose steroid treatment, the manic depressive emotional roller coaster, face as round as a dinner plate, legs with 4+ pitting edema due to heart failure brought on by the steroids. Not to mention the 3 or 4 inhalers and nebulizer breathing treatments every 3 or 4 hours. Not to mention having a peak flow of 150 when normal is 450 or having an o2 sat of 90% or being in the hospital on oxygen and breathing treatments and iv steroids.
I have experienced all of the above and more. I am not saying anyone caused my asthma, I am saying that it has been set off more times than I can keep track of by exposure to OTHER PROPLES smoke, perfume, candles, room sprays and the like.
You may think I am being overly dramatic but in reality, I have barely touched the surface of what this disease is all about. My disease is pretty well controlled right now but I have to be vigilant about reducing my exposure to known triggers.
Someone explain to me how a smoker’s desire to be protected from the cold is more important to my ability to breath.