Dude, if you can work your mojo with women while you’re covered in bees, I would say you have gotten way past their marriage status in terms of overcoming obstacles.
It happens to a lot of people. There’s even a song from a musical about it…
Yep. The question is whether or not you care. If you don’t, hit that shit like a car crash. If you do care, say no thanks and move on.
I disagree completely. I felt bad for months after I found out that a guy I’d gone to dinner with was married. I found out from another woman in the bathroom of the restaurant, and just left by the side door. I wanted to apologize to the wife but a friend convinced me that since there was no sex, there was no point in telling her. Still wish I’d told her what that scum was up to.
This is in line with my experience. Though I really don’t hang out with the type of women who do this, I have known a few peripherally. They are into the whole competition and status thing. It’s this imaginary world where it’s hard to get a man to have sex with you, and only those women who are extremely attractive can convince a man to do it with them - more so if he’s in a committed relationship. In this universe (which, come to think of it, would make a GREAT comic book genre) if you get a married man to have sex with you then you are de facto more attractive than his wife, and have “Won”. These women spend enormous amounts of time on hair and makeup in order to be first in line to be used by some lying SOB at the bar on Saturday night.
It’s a sad existence, but then so is any existence based on the achievement of physical sensation.
Bravo AK! It’s nice to hear there are still men of integrity out there!
Read the very first response.
Also, have you considered the possibility that she was a professional?
She’s a grown woman, it’s not your responsibility to be looking out for her relationship decisions. Who knows what her situation is - for all you know her husband is gay.
Honesty with which she conducted her deception?
Its not uncommon for “working women” to work London hotels,they tend to be at the upper end of the spectrum of call girls and usually make a connection with a guest and then when it gets close to fun time they reveal that they are businesswomen.
You may be surprised to find that most of the punters dont get upset and walk away because the women themselves are personable,well spoken and intelligent.
If this woman was a WG the ring would be to deter those men looking for a relationship at the very outset to save wasting time(is money).
If you were working at the hotel then this woman would have been someone for real just looking for strings free sex as if you haven’t got money then the WGs wont touch you with a bargepole.
Before anyone asks do I/have I enjoyed the company of these women?
The answer is on the pittance I earn most definitely no though I have from time to time passed the time of day with them with both of us knowing that I wasn’t a potential customer.