I’m another East Coast Doper that ended up being a BAD back in the day. I’ve probably met the same 40-50 people as Jack Batty, as we went to the same 2 in NYC and SLODope. I moved from RI to CA for someone I met here, over a decade ago. I dated and lived with a different one (that I met here) for years. There’s a few I still consider dear friends, even though we’ve all gotten families and marriages and kids and stuff and don’t talk much anymore. (Maeglin, FunkDaddy… I mean DOCTOR FunkDaddy, lno, elenfair… zyzzyva doesn’t count because I knew him from before.) I have a picture of 14 year old Mercutio picking me up like a sack of potatoes.
I think Nen was probably the last Doper I’ve seen, and that was a couple years ago now. I was going to try to meet up with some Toronto Dopers when I was living in Guelph, but I never got a chance to before I left.
I think I’m in the neighborhood of a hundred too. I’ve been to several pretty big Dopefests in Chicago, one in Minneapolis, one in Springfield, and met a few here in Madison (thinking of you, Cat Whisperer and Dread Pirate Jimbo). Plus a friend who introduced me to the Dope but has since stopped posting here.
Ditto for me (hallo, Sam & Angua!) as well as others in that circle with whom I’ve never met face to face, but have shared email conversations (hallo, Gyrate!)
Many many dozen, as in “Hi, (read nametag) I’m UncleBill!” = met. 40 or so I could (and have) pick out of a lineup.
“Normal” Dopefests in Tampa, Red Top Mountain in GA (Hi, Nawth Chucka!) Baltimore, Philly, and a few Mega DopeFests in New York (twice), Spiffled II, Redondo Beach, CA (DopeToberFest), ChiDope. I, too, married one, and had five others at our wedding. Attended a wedding of one in Columbus, OH with maybe a dozen Dopers there.
Probably a dozen when I once attended a Dopefest 4 1/2 years ago at the home of WeirdDave and Ginger of the North, who unfortunately don’t participate here any longer (but were great hosts!) I believe Scuba Ben was there and some others whose names escape me for the moment.
I used to host DopeFests and such at my place in the country outside of Washington DC. MADs Represent! It stands - stood? - for Mid-Atlantic Dopers. In addition I held one in southeast Ohio and I hosted a bunch - while I was fighting cancer - for the eclipse last year.
Hell, I just realized that at least three of them are dead, now.
I’m having an election day party. Who wants to come to that?