Oh Soapbox, I so feel for you. (I can’t call you Monkey any more; you’re greater than that.) Hugs to you and all of your family, and a shoulder to cry on. And congratulations on your graduation. Even in the passing, new things are born.
My sister died of liver cancer; I know just what it looks like.
I’m very sorry. Peace to you.
It’s been 12 years since we had to make the decision to take my mother off life support. The days of waiting for her to pass were excruciating. You have handled this remarkably. Peace be to you and your family.
Know that she lived a good life, raised a great family, and is now no longer in pain.
Take gentle care of yourself, SoapboxMonkey. Take the time you need to grieve no matter what others say is “normal”. We’ll be here if you need a shoulder.
Peace to you and your family. I’m so sorry for your loss.
GT
Yes, indeed. The loss is real, and will never be forgotten (unfortunately I have some experience with this), but one thing IS clear – your Mom would want you all to heal and get on with your lives, because Moms are like that. Yeah, they are.
Hugs to you all – what a great family she raised!
My thoughts continue to be with you and your family.
The peace that surpasses all understanding be with you and your family, today and always.
Your Mum was very proud of you and it really meant a lot to her that you showed her your graduation.
I know this is a very difficult time, but I repeat that it will help you a lot if you get grief counselling. Losing a loved one causes all sorts of feelings, including sorrow, tiredness, anger and confusion. We all need help to get through these times.
Best of luck.