Mom is dying.

Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share
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She hid how bad her condition was.

We thought it was dehydration.
Her Doc tells us the cancer is all through her body.

One brother & my sister are here, the other on the way from Florida.

Rotating shifts at her hospital bed.

She turned blue last night. Not regained consciousness since.

Wills, living & otherwise are in place.

Cremation, with no funeral, when needed.

Last night, I thought she was gonna be fine. Today, we learn the truth.

She’s tried to shield us from worry & pain, as much as she can.

What a good Mother she is.

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My Mother died of a rare form of breast cancer on February 17, 2006. My heart goes out to you and to your family. I know EXACTLY what you are going through and you have my unwavering sympathy and moral support. I will keep you and yours in my thoughts.

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I feel for ya, Bosda. If there’s any advice I can offer, it’s: Keep your relationships with the living. I’ve lost three near family members in the last year. Take time to heal and remember the good things she’s done.

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I’m so sorry to hear that. My best to you and your family.

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Bosda, you and your family are in my thoughts.

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I’m so sorry, Bosda. I’ve lost my father and I know how you feel. You’re in my prayers.

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I’m really sorry to hear this, Bosda, I know from previous postings just how worried you’ve been about her. Will be thinking of you and your family.

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Oh my goodness.

I can’t even begin to imagine what you are going through right now. Just know that we care–be safe, know that you are loved. hugs

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You and yours are in my thoughts today, Bosda. Cancer took my father a year ago today. It’s never easy. Prayers going your way.

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I’m sorry to hear that you received such sad news. :frowning: My condolences to you and your family.

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Bosda - My sincere sympathy. I’m right here in the 'boro if you need anything. I can run to the grocery store or that sort of thing if it’ll help.

StG

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Jeez…that’s certainly a shocking turn of events. I’m sorry for your pain. I’m glad you’ll have good memories to get you through this hard time. Best wishes to you and your family.

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My sympathies to you and your family, Bosda. What a terrible thing for all of you.

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I hope your sibling makes it home in time to spend a few moments with your mom.
Watching some leave is very hard. I did it with my grandparents who were more of a mother and father than my parents ever were.
I wish you strength in this time and you will be in my thoughts.
What a mom trying to protect you from hurt till the very end.

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I’m so sorry Bosda, Prayers coming your way from my family. We lost my Aunt to Breast Cancer in Dec. 06’ so I feel your pain. I miss her so much! It isn’t fair. Just know you have lots of support from all of us here at the Dope.

holding back the tears

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Sorry to hear your news, Bosda. Positive thoughts for you and your family.

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If so very sorry to hear this Bosda. What a strong Mother you must have. Comforting thoughts are coming to you and your family.

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My thoughts are with you and your family these next few days. May your mom pass knowing how much she is loved.

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I am sorry to hear your news. May whatever gods there be, be with you and your family. Sending supporting thoughts your way.

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So sorry…