Stoid:
Also, from my observation directly and my observation of exceptionally beautiful famous women the kind of men extremely beautiful women end up with are as I said above, but in addition, they are also the kind of men who put a very high value on beauty, and there is a deadly downside to that: there is always someone more beautiful than you.
As a consequence, I’ve noticed that very beautiful women tend to be extremely insecure, and very often with very good reason. Since their beauty is frequently their most valuable asset in a relationship, they are kinda paranoid about other beautiful women, as well as being extremely concerned with maintaining their looks. And it is amazing how much very beautiful women are cheated on (Halle Berry anyone?) But that’s why!
My one true love relationship ended, but it wasn’t because he found someone else. And he never cheated on me, I know he never would have. I had absolutely no worries that some beautiful woman was going to come and take him away from me, because the very fact that he was with me was proof that he was not the sort of man who valued beauty all that highly.
My beautiful girlfriends could never feel like that, because it was never true! At least, not until the one who married her Brit who fell in love with her mind and heart.
Another things I’ve seen is that for the beautiful person, their SO can get extremely insecure. If you have attractive people hitting on your SO constantly then you start to become afraid they will cheat, and that also adds tension to the relationship. I was reading some extremely attractive guys’ perspective on the situation and he said that his girlfriend would end up deeply insecure if they went out to date because the waitress would hit in him in front of her, etc.
One thing that is nice is that people are always happy to see you. (I’m guessing).
steronz:
x4. Seems shady as fuck.
…which brings us back to the OP: “Truly Beautiful Women”.
Somewhere before the end of this life, there should be 1-2 rounds of ‘43’ with ice water chasers and a discussion of women off-line.
bb49:
Back in my single days, one of the women I dated was incredibly beautiful. Playboy beautiful. Drop-dead beautiful.
One day not long after I met her, I took her over to my apartment. I was living with another guy at the time, and not long after her and I got there, he comes in. He stood in the hallway for several minutes, just staring at her. He didn’t say a word, but finally he walked away. Later he told me he had never seen a girl so beautiful.
So now you understand just how attractive she was, I’ll tell you what she was like under that skin.
To this day I still call her the Ice Queen. On the outside she was Playmate of the decade. On the inside she was as cold as ice. On the outside she dressed incredibly stylish. On the inside she was bland and plaid.
I have to confess that for a short time she was eye-candy. She looked quite nice walking beside me. But it didn’t take long to realize that there were plenty of girls out there that could knock the socks off this girl with just their personalities.
One night at a party, actually a New Years Eve party, her and I were wandering around talking to people, and I asked her if she was ready to go home. She said yes, so I dropped her off and then I went back to the party, and found some "real women" . And I never went back to drop-dead gorgeous girls. Or Ice Queens.
She knew she was good-looking, but I have no idea what she expected from me, or the next guy, or the guy after him.
One more thing. I recall that she talked about herself lots.
Think about how your roommate treated her: nothing close to how you’d treat almost any other human being. No words, just stare, turn, and leave?
Hell, I’d be surprised if she had half a decent personality after a lifetime of that.
lalaith
January 12, 2016, 2:17am
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purplehorseshoe:
Think about how your roommate treated her: nothing close to how you’d treat almost any other human being. No words, just stare, turn, and leave?
Hell, I’d be surprised if she had half a decent personality after a lifetime of that.
I’ve known a couple of models in my life. And I mean people who made their living getting their photos taken. They were both nice. But it’s a profession with a lot of rejection. And it tends to point out people’s flaws.
But my experience with beautiful women is some are nice and some are not.
