I have no idea what this means. Who is stating that something is wrong? What is wrong? Who are they accountable to? What does “representing the wrongness” mean? You’ve said that no one deserves sex, but then how can someone deserve it more than others?
It may make sense in your head, but on (electronic) paper it’s just a word salad. Can you walk us through a concrete example, demonstrating a scenario with Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice as to who deserves sex more and why?
Easy as can be actually… use all the data you gather from the service industries, grocery stores, resturaunts, bars… send a variety of men and women and check flirtation of the servers when asking for a service. Someone to count your recycled cans… anything, and check to see who flirts in general, and then immediately ask them to have sex with you if they do. It’s not really fair, but it proves a point.
Tomanddeb stated that non-rapists don’t deserve sex more than rapists, assuming they come across as decent people; in fact, even though they say rape is wrong, it is not wrong to them, for people to only have sex with rapists, and never have sex with non-rapists.
That is exactly what they argued, to try to make their point, that nobody deserves sex more than another person (in the instance that people are having sex); while still asserting that rape is horrible…
I’ve met thousands of different waitresses, waiters, bartenders and cashiers in every business imaginable, I’ve seen hot women stand in line and I’ve seen hot men stand in line, I’ve watched the servers and the customers… I’ve seen less attractive men and women stand in line… women flirt WAY more than men do, whether the person is attractive or unattractive, way more…
In the instance the man does flirt, I am sure at least 80% of them would accept an offer of sex right on the spot, even ones who have partners… that’s based on other studies.
Women, based on those same studies, will be 0%.
But don’t believe your eyes, even though you too have seen thousands of people…
I also really want to repeat this, because I think it is hilarious!!
The hypocrisy is so horrible, that I actually find it funny…
People say to me, that by explaining that I am a decent person, who works to deserve sex as much as I can, would be a massive turn-off to women… I actually don’t disagree with them…
What I find totally hilarious, is that a woman doing the same thing, will actually open more, not less sexual doors with men.
What’s funny about that; is by making this argument; you are actually arguing that women are by definition, sexually evil; and men are less so…
Can you cite one other person in the world that has come to the same conclusions as you after observing thousands of people? If not, the sane conclusion to make would be that your conclusions are(at best) faulty and need reevaluating.
You’ve never conducted a study, admit it. You pulled the % out of your ass. That said, your anecdotal observations revealed noting new or surprising with respect to the well established bahaviour that, on average, women are much more selective about sex opportunities/partners than men.
What’s surprising is that any of this is surprising to you. What species did you say you were again?
Rather than try to sort out productive debate among the wheat and the chaff, I’m just going to lock this. There’s probably a few borderline rule stuff going on here, so I’ll just remind everyone to please play nice in the future.