Some song "what are we fighting for"

Trying to find the name of a 90’S or 2000’s song, chorus of the song is something like “what are we fighting for” I think. Its kind of a rock ballad type, male singer, relationship song, not the anti war song. Last time I heard it was a few days ago in a roadhouse type pub that that plays music from that era. I know I heard it before so it must of have gotten air play at some time. Not much to go on I know. Thanks for your thoughts.

The band Live had a song with that as the chorus.

Is it this? Or maybe this?

Or Korn?

[Wake the fuck up!
Wake the fuck up!
Wake the fuck up!
Wake the fuck up!

I can’t take no more.
What are we fighting for?
You are my brothers
Each one I would die for
Please just let it go
All our heads are blown
Let’s take the stage
And remember what we play for](WAKE UP Lyrics - KORN | eLyrics.net)

Country Joe MacDonald at Woodstock.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiWcDt8566g

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Maybe Third Eye Blind - How’s it Going to Be? The phrase is in the verse not the chorus, but it was the first thing I thought of.

He said “not the antiwar one”. Besides, that was the 60s, not the 90s.

That’s it! Thanks! Now I can listen to it and get it out of my head.

Listen to “Semi-Charmed Life” instead: “Doot doot doot, dootdootdootdoot, doot doot doot, dootdootdootdoot!”

Sorry, obviously my reading comprehension is shattered by my frustration with the board’s antics.