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I really have tried. Let me do it another way.
What I said : And yes, explanations for bad behavior are excuses. By definition.
What it is claimed I said : An explanation, by definition, is an excuse.
The second statement would only be a fair representation of what I actually said if, and only if, all explanations were explanations for bad behavior. I never said anything at all about the set of [explanations that do not reference bad behavior]. Obviously, explanations exist that make no reference to bad behavior. I have provided examples of them. In this thread. The examples have gone unacknowledged.
At no time have I said that all explanations are excuses. I have never said that an explanation, by definition, is an excuse. I have challenged anyone to show where I did. Again, unacknowledged.
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At the risk of prolonging this horrible trainwreck, I’m going to say that “explanations for bad behavior are excuses” is not any less wrong than “all explanations are excuses”.
If I slam you with my car and run away, and you with the face shows up and says, “monstro did that because she’s always been an irresponsible, no-account fool”, that’s not an excuse at all. It’s the opposite of an excuse.
If I say that Michael Vick was involved with this dog-killing business because he hates dogs, that’s also not in any way defending him. And it’s just as much as an explanation as what Goldberg said.
Wouldn’t it just be easier to stop with the absolute definitions and just say “Often people come up with explanations that serve to excuse the guilty”? Because this is certainly true. All the other quotables have been just wordy bullshit.
Moving back to the OP, I don’t understand why it’s so taboo to offer an excuse in the first place. Every act has an explanation beyond “that person is fucked up”. And things can have multiple, simultenously operating explanations. A person can have a car accident not only because they’re drunk, but because they were speeding. A person can be a murderer not only because they were abused as a young child, but because they wanted to get the victim’s money. I fail to see how it improves anything by pretending moral depravity exists in a vacuum.
It also seems that if Whoopie had brought up “thug” or Hip Hop culture, no one would be talking about this. In fact, I can imagine she’d be receiving applause.