So, how soon after the speed-dating event is “too soon” for asking someone out?
On Wednesday night, I went to my first speed-dating session. This morning (which was earlier than I thought) I got the link in my inbox enabling me to contact other attendees. Nobody has sent anything to me yet. One can also select “matches,” and then one will be notified if at any point you have a mutual match. This company mentions, however, that one should not hesitate to send messages, since not everybody bothers with selecting matches.
There’s someone in particular I found very appealing, but I’m not sure what I should do at this point. I don’t understand dating very well, and I know that I don’t want to seem desperate, or puppy-like, or whatever. Also, I cannot wait too long, as the link is only active for ten days.
So what is the proper etiquette here?