I’m sure you are aware, but I got scared - my husband has been damn good so far, but if he ever decided to lurk, wandered into this thread, thought, well, hmm… women like this, eh? Maybe I’ll give it a try…
Just covering my ass. Er, nips. 
I really and truly hate it if Pepper Mill tries to do anything to my nipples. I hate it in a fingernails-on-the-blackboard, chewing-tinfoil-with-a-mouth-full-of-fillings visceral way. It’s not a question of ticklish. And it’s certainly not fear of gayness, any more than intense hatred of rubbing styrofoam is induced by homophobia.
I have no idea why I react this way. Fortunately, Pepper doesn’t react the same way, and rather seems to like it.
Lucky! Pierced nipples are hot.
Anyhow, I’ve had mixed reactions from nipples. My last serious boyfriend really loved to have his nipples played with, but he wasn’t straight (he was bisexual, but usually mistaken for gay). The next guy I tried nipple-play with didn’t like it, which stopped me from playing with nipples without permission. The last guy I asked was sort of indifferent. He didn’t mind if I played with them, but it didn’t do much for him.
Glad you’re looking out for me.
Well, there is a book called, Why Do Men Have Nipples and, from my experience as a Gay man, I can tell you we don’t need to buy the book.
Straight female here. I have tried nipple play with three men. All had hairy chests. One found it a big turn-on, (the hairiest one) but the other two were kinda meh about it, and preferred other spots.
Maybe more gay men then straight men have nipple-piercings, and that confuses the issue, because that makes it seem only they have sensitive nipples?
I’ve had mixed results myself - some gentlemen like it, some don’t, some are “meh”.
I, personally, am not that big a fan of having my nipples played with. Probably because the line between “that feels nice” and “Jesus, Mary and Joseph that hurts” is very, very thin in my case with regards to my nipples. There seems to be a time limit of sorts. I can stand maybe two minutes of my nipples being touched and that is it. It’s a fairly abrupt sort of thing, and I find it confuses gentlemen when you go from having a good time to giving them resentful looks and clasping your hands protectively over your nipples in seconds. Plus, the nice feeling bit isn’t any nicer-feeling than a hundred other sensations that are much, much less likely to suddenly turn into overstimulated painfulness. YMMV.
I’m a straight man, and licking my nipples does nothing. You might as well lick my elbow.
On the other hand, I do find it stimulating to have my anus fondled during sex. Hey, it’s physiological, I can’t help it! It feels good.
But I never ask that of my partner . . . even I don’t want to touch my own anus, not because I’m afraid I might be gay, but because I don’t find that to be the cleanest of areas. I’ve been known to deficate from that orfice.
And have you not been known to ever clean that orifice? :dubious:
I’m actually quite anal (horrible pun intended) in my wiping habits, even using damp toilet paper to get the job done. But there is still post-wipe fecal reside that would get all over fondling fingers. If I could shower after each BM, I would be more inclined for anus fondling. But unfortunately that’s not always an option.
Also, I conducted a few tests, such as cleaning my anus as vigorously as possible with soap in the shower. Even after all that, I took a towel and wiped my anus really hard and then smelled the towel. It still smelled like it wiped an anus.
Simply too much deficating goes on down there to ever use that body part in ways that pretend that no fecal residue is present.
Aside from not being gay, this pretty much sums up my position on it.
I was just looking for that quote, because it also sums up my boyfriend’s position. Except that you can add in “irritation” between “boring” and “hurts”, and the span of time necessary to achieve all three is about 30 seconds.
I have only been with one woman who tried anything with my nipples.
I married her.
What are you doing to the poor guy???
Looks like an interesting read (and suspiciously similar to the Straight Dope)!
But could you expand on this please? I’m having a hard time understanding why as a gay man I would have preternatural knowledge of such things as:
*“Why do I get a killer headache when I suck down my milkshake too fast?” * or “Can I lose my contact lens inside my head forever?”
Obviously, you need to spice up your sex life a little.
With milkshakes and lost contact lenses?
Yessir. I know a great club you can start at.
Well, not so much of a “club”, per se…er…
My husband gets no pleasure whatsoever out of having his nipples played with. He’s not ticklish at all, just doesn’t find it pleasurable. And just for JohnBckWld, I’ll add that he has very little chest hair.