I just have this nagging feeling that there is some subtext here that I am missing. And I think that it has to do with the whole “hulking” comment (not that I am over sensitive because I am a big tall oaf :p). Like it is in the same realm as those women who wear shirts that plunge down to you should only blush but then want to get all huffy when you look at their cleavage. Or when a woman is walking around in a miniskirt so tight that she would give herself an orgasm just putting it on, who then gets full of the snark when people are looking at her ass and legs.
Unless….you are the right person, I presume (because I have to assume that those get ups are intended to have someone looking at the goods). Which all seems to be part of the general theme we have going on in a lot of areas that assumes that men should read minds or something and that it is ok to be indignant at those who, while doing their best, don’t get all of the subtle signals and fucking clairvoyant voodoo right.
After reading this thread, I have figured out that my claustrophobic self is doing something right in elevators, unintentionally. I don’t like being stuck in the back of the elevator, so I maneuver around so I am always at the front (I dunno - it’s like I’m closer to the fresh air, or something). Win-Win!
Pbbth, you inspired the kind of bizzarre mean responses that makes me automatically like you.
Keep posting about the big boobs mama! And if you also happen to be a big mama, (I don’t know if you are but I am) then so the hell what? Why do the same folks keep running up on you saying “and the bigger the woman, the bigger the boobs! So they are fat so there!”
I mean, what is up with that? So what? Lets say all fat women have big boobs (which I have one thing to say to that theory. Proportion, Proportion, Proportion! Gut can’t be sticking out past the boobs, hips and butt, and Pbbth I saw your pic and I know you got the right curves, sweety.) Let’s say that all fat women have big boobs, why does it bear stating?
Let me clear your confusion. I don’t call anyone a Big Mama, unless they accept that term for themselves. I use that term often, and it has a specific meaning to me. Maybe one of the folks that searched Pbbth’s name along with ‘boobs’ can search mine along with “Big Mama” and it will enlighten you.
I saw her pic, which she took to showcase her fabulous boobs. They are awesome.
Actually, I am stunned at folks that go around calling folks fat or big or anything else if they don’t refer to themselves that way. It actually startled me in this thread.
But, I hope you don’t think I got issues with you, Sleeps. I only posted to show some solidarity with Pbbth.
I hear this all the time, but when I try it, I have three knuckles pointing at me, but three fingertips pointing 90 degrees from the pointing one, ie. to my left if pointing with left hand, to my right if pointing with right hand. Who counts the knuckle as the pointy part of the finger? I point my knuckle at you, I’m really pointing back at me.
How about “When you point the fingertip at others, you have three knuckles pointing back at you, unless you point a knuckle at others, in which case you have one fingertip pointing back at you.”
Although I’m just assuming that most people point like me, and you know what they say: “If you assume, you make an ass out of the letter u and me, unless you’re misspelling it assyoume, in which case you’re making an ass out of the subjective you and me. Not the sheep.”
Sounds to me like a simple case of a woman who has a fantasy of having sex in an elevator with a hulking, burly man (or men). Thoughts of men rubbing up against her boobs (which are clearly an erotic center for her) has led her to come up with this imaginary and non-threatening version of that scenario.
Damn! Does everthing have to be so complicated? Can I look at your breasts or not. Are you a guy? In which case I shouldn’t be looking anyway? If you’re a guy, are they the nice kind of breasts? You’re not angry are you? In that’s the case just forget it. I can hardly tell what the hell goes on around here.
I am a guy. What was that one poster that thought every guy smiling at her was objectifying her in the most disrespectful way possible? Look at her breasts.
I appreciate that you saying that, but it hadn’t even crossed my mind. I tend to not take things personally unless someone directly attacks me, and even then unless I’ve really done something to fuck up, I assume their anger is more about them than me. What you said didn’t even ping, really.
I wouldn’t call myself fat, because I’m not nor have I ever been. But, pbbth has told us all that she is overweight many times. Of course, she’s also told us even more times than that how sexy she feels she is. I didn’t directly call her fat, but described the content of breasts.
They are about 15-25 milk glands and the rest is mostly fat with a little bit of fibrous connective tissues to give it shape. Once one is outside of puberty, they rarely have a growth spurt of the breast without a weight gain. If this happens, the connective tissues expands, but you don’t get more of it to support the new flesh. That’s just how we’re made.
Some guys like very large breasts. Some guys like very small breasts. I think most men just like breasts without a really strong preference. There’s a breast fan for every breast out there. That’s just how men are made. So, win/win.
Well, color me edumacated. If you want to look at em’ I will. If the’re nice n’ stuff.
To be honest, looking at women with their cleavage prominantly displayed, I use all of my will power (weak that is) to avoid looking directly at them. They usually got that high beam thing going on, though. Tis’ not an easy task.
There are really only two types of breasts, as far as men are concerned: new breasts and old* breasts. We like new breasts.
*New as in new to me and old as in I already saw those.
Whew! I’m glad you said this, because now I feel ok discussing anything with you without fear of pinging any sensitive areas.
I think it is odd when skinny girls rag on overweight girls for no apparent reason. I question where it all comes from when it seems to come bizarrely out of left field. I know this is the pit, but the thread seemed to turn on her in a quick and surreal fashion.
What I find odder still is this fixation on making the point that big tits on fat women is just fat and not actual fibrous titty muscle, or whateverthehell. I think I remember this topic coming up in a different thread (hopes no one asks for cite; I suck at searches but will dig if pressed) with the exact same biological sciency facts about the make up of the breast coming up.
Listen. The same way there are thin women who are widely considered hot and thin women who are widely considered not hot, the same is true for big women.
Some are all gut and pendulous arms and chin and neck, and some have huge tits, in proportion to their gut and waist. The are curvy and shapely, and I am beginning to wonder if women like Pbbth are somewhat of a threat to thin women with small tits who maybe thought to themselves, “I am not hot like the sexy slim girls, but I should damn well be hotter than all of the fat girls, so how dare this big voluptuous woman think she is sexy just because she has those big ol’ jugs!”.
Not to project that on you in particular, but the idea seems to be out there sometimes, and while I only vaguely noticed it before, more so lately, it is becoming consipcuous.
As a woman that considers herself big and sexy, I may be projecting my own issues into this matter, but I actually doubt that, sense this is not one of my emotional hot buttons that can be pushed on a message board. Lord knows I have enough of those too. I am a bit more sensitive than some calm, cool and collected heads, though.
I guess I’m missing where the “skinny girls” are ragging on Pbbth in this thread. The weird thing is, on this board it is far more likely to see people praising the “curvy” or “thick” women than anyone else. I’ve seen numerous threads where normal sized women are called “boyish” or “anorexic” or something equally silly. It goes so far as to call overweight women “real women” which is the silliest of all. So if you’re not overweight, you’re not a real woman? Bizarre.
I’m a nurse so the medical information of the makeup of the female breast is just an explanation of what goes on with the body. It’s odd to me that you consider mentioning it twice (once in little detail and once in greater detail) to be a fixation. Using that same qualification, it would mean that you are fixated with pbbth’s curves.
What I mostly see in this thread are people who are saying that they believe pbbth mentions some things a lot in her posts. Breasts, her belief in her sexiness, and her boyfriend seem to be what is being said. There have been pit threads saying Evil Captor talks too much about bondage and Siam Sam talks too much about Thailand. In both of those situations there were people who said yes they do talk too much about those subjects, while a lot of people disagreed. Here are there are people who’ve expressed both sides of the issue as well.
I’m not sure what you mean by “women like Pbbth” so I’ll skip that part, but you mentioned that you think thin girls are threatened by overweight women. I would have to believe, like most any other kind of personality trait, that it depends on the individual. Do I think that thin women (in general) are threatened by overweight women? No, and I doubt the opposite is true either. I would hope that NO woman would think they are sexy because of their “big ol’ jugs” because that boils down our sexuality to a body part. To me, that’s sad.
If pbbth feels that she is sexy, good for her. I have noticed that she proclaims this fairly often and admit that I have thought “We get it, we get it.” once or twice. There’s no doubt that there are men who love her look while there will be men who find her unattractive. Same for you. Same for me. Same for everyone, really. We can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
What I wonder about is if there was a woman here who looked like a human Barbie doll who frequently announced her sexiness to all, would she get the same supporters or would she be seen as really vain? It’s hard to say, but I believe she’d get a lot more hate hurled at her than what we’re seeing here.
As for everyone else, I get it, okay? I’m an asshole. Point taken. I will work on being less of an asshole in the future. On that note, I’d like to ask that we maybe close the thread now if at all possible. I have had a really shitty couple of days (which is probably the main reason the elevator thing bugged me enough to post about it in the first place) and this really isn’t helping me at all.
