It really cranks my handle when people play Stupid Dominance Games with their food.
I happen to like sushi. I also completely understand why some people do not like sushi - maybe they don’t like fish as a category, maybe they don’t like the texture, maybe they are just very set in their eating habits. It’s all cool.
I like to introduce people to sushi. I take them to a nice, quiet place that isn’t too busy. I encourage them to order someting non-sushi as well, so if they don’t like they have something else to eat. Sometimes I’ll let the cook know it’s this person’s first time, because I’ve always found sushi chefs to be true artists, very proud of their work, and very much they want people to enjoy the food. My first time the chef asked me what sort of fish I liked. When I said salmon he started me out on that, and things of similar texture and flavor intensity which was a very nice introduction. I’ve known other sushi chefs to do the same thing - perhaps a crab/shrimp lover would be introduced through that. After all, it’s usually the first experience that makes or breaks your opinion. I once took an avocado lover out for sushi and they wound up eating that and never got to the fish varieties until their 3rd or 4th trip.
I frequently start people off with vegetarian sushi. It gets them away from the “raw fish” concept, which is only a part of the sushi experience. More of an exotic salad, with more familar textures and flavors. It also costs less, which takes some of the tension out of those first experiences. Some people only want vegee sushi, which is OK by me.
Personally, I won’t eat anything that still has eyeballs on it (I hate it when the food stares back) or tentacles. I’ve eaten enough squid/octopus in various preparations to know I just don’t like to eat the critters. If I was starving to death - yes. But I’ve yet to find myself in serious danger of that.
I’ve pretty much settled into eating keppa and futomaki rolls, and salmon, mackeral, and tuna nigiri right now, with maybe one new item every 2nd or 3rd time just for variety and adventure. If I’m in the mood. Usually the husband comes with me, has his shrimp fried rice and maybe one nigiri (he feels sushi is OK, but he doesn’t go out of his way for it). Typically a very pleasent evening.
And maybe once a year go out with other sushi fans, spend way too much money, and try a whole bunch of new things. But with a group the “risk” is spread around more - buy some weird maki maybe you don’t like it, but in a group of five or more somebody will so it won’t go to waste.
And if someone starte Stupid Dominance Games I whimp out by looking all frail and delicate and whimpering “But I’m only a little girl…” 'Cause that’s the really cool thing about being a woman - you never have to prove how much of a man you are.