Some (swinging) couples argue that by mutually agreeing to their respective partner’s “picking fruit from other trees”, they are in fact combating the stagnation of their own marriage/relationship. Some couples even claim that it strengthens their marriage/relationship. Quite how I don’t know.
I guess I’m just a randy devil who wants to have sex with other people, but who doesn’t necessarily want to end his existing relationship.
However, I have a friend(female) that wants to take me to a club and then to the after party when the club closes. The idea of a night of casual sex certainly sounds stimulating but I’m not sure if I’m ready for that type of environment.
Suggestions for a first timer? The decision has to be made by Friday.
List me some of the pro’s and con’s and some of the shocking things that will blow my little semi-pure mind out of the water! My curious side says go for it…its just one night, but my cautious side says, what if you see someone you know! :eek:
I was with a swinger a couple of times. It was… odd. While I had fun the couple of times we were together, I had to break it off because the concept of her leaving me to go home to her husband and kids was a bit unnerving to me.
But hey… If other people can do it, more power to 'em…
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