A female friend’s husband dropped a ceramic ashtray in their basement near the bottom of the steps but didn’t bother to sweep up the broken shards. She was pissed, of course, and did not clean it up either. Neither of them mentioned it to the other. After a few days, she noticed that he had placed a pair of slippers in the bottom step; he would slip them on before walking through the minefield of broken ceramic. So she started using the slippers as well. The broken pieces remained unswept.
I’m not sure how long this went on, or how it got resolved, but I know it lasted at least a month.
Are we sure the husband dropped the ashtray, that it wasn’t the cat who knocked it down the stairs and it broke at the bottom? Maybe the husband and wife both think the other one broke it and is being stubborn in not cleaning it up.
I once got so mad at my stepmother that I quit the family business, bought out a competitor, then bidded against the family business for TWO YEARS, until my parents relented and bought me back out.