Good lord, not with grandma!!? :eek:
:::applause::::
And AFG my dear chicky, my husband is 50+ and his equipment is *anything * but moldy!
Oral sex… IT’S IN THE FRICKIN’ SONG OF SOLOMON! IT WASN’T JUST INVENTED!
The body parts that fit together have been fitting together since there was two bodies to fit together, in my opinion. Admitting to doing certain acts may have fallen out of fashion for a while, but there is nothing new under the sun.
As for my grandma, she got re-married in her sixties, I believe it was. I know intellectually that they had a wedding night and all that, but let’s just leave it at that, shall we? This is a much better use of a “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. 
It is? I used to read that thing in church as a kid (to avoid listening to the preacher), and don’t remember any references to it. Are you talking about the whole “your navel is like a goblet, filled with the sweetest wine” part?
Heh. No, it wasn’t just you. I was 8 months pregnant when I read in a book that women had orgasms.
In my own defense, I have to note that I was barely 16 at the time and had conceived the first time I ever had sex. I’ve caught up a bit on my knowledge since then.
Hmmm The writers for* Deadwood * must have it all wrong then… 
Note that in my previous post, I said no such thing! I suspect it’s more common right now than it was in some previous generations. Using common logic, citing instances of oral sex happening long ago or even in the 1950s doesn’t disprove my statement. I just want to know, say, the percentage of women and men in various age groups who have performed oral sex on a partner, and how that changes over time.
Sexual practices come in and out of vogue as generations pass by. Who’s to say that our grandkids won’t consider oral sex old-fashioned?
nope. not just you. i didn’t learn sex could feel good until i was in my 20s :eek:
–bemused hijack-- as a professional cameraman, I am wildly tempted to go into the studio today with a nice big cold meatloaf sammich in my hand.
There is no invasion of privacy. These adults ( that’s kind of an important word. A minor has more rights to privacy than an adult does in the USA ) sat on a set and discussed the intimate aspects of their marriage. Dr. Phil didn’t coerce them at all. Where’s the invasion of privacy? They may have chosen to surrender most of their marital privacy on national telelvision, but that’s entirely different. Imagine heading down to the local A&A/Publix/Kroger/Vaun’s ? " Gee, Marge, I’d have guessed you wouldn’t be buying the Super Saver Pak of tapioca pudding after that little stunt you pulled on Dr. Phil. Who’d have guessed you had a taste for it? "
As for the ability to please someone in a near-public ( pubic? :eek: ) place, well girls, some boys are more inventive than other boys. Let’s just leave it at that, shall we? And, some boys don’t mind being chased away in mid-lick by a National Park Ranger. :eek: :eek:
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Latex (and others requiring a high technology base) fetishes. Cybersex. How are these not new?
Yes, the wiring and the plumbing is all the same, but as technology increases, we will find new ways to have sex.
Love letters (and sex letters) have been around since correspondence. Cybersex is just faster than the pony express.
But not new, not by a long shot.
That’s outrageous!
Where were these girls when I was 13?
Okay, I stand corrected - there are new, high-tech fabrics and toys for sexual adventures.
I stand by my point about the body parts fitting together, though. It boggles my mind that people can think that a recent generation invented any particular, basic sexual position. The Ancient Greeks were all about the man-boy love; you think they never heard of oral?
From the The Washington Post:
So, in fact, it’s tit for tat.
Malacandra, the name you’re looking for is Ayla. I read those books when I was about 13, and certain passages got pretty worn over. 
Jennifer Manlove, who works in fertility research. Just a joke without a punchline, that name.
The line about oral sex in frontier brothels is used in “The Godfather.” The book, that is, not the movie. And Rae Dawn Chong ain’t no caveman, although she might have gone down on one.
I’m fairly sure mouths were invented quite a ways back, so I’m not sure how this argument applies to giving head . . . maybe it’s just my generation, but the idea of oral sex seems pretty obvious to me. I suspect people did it back in the day. You know, that whole idea that up until about 1950 people were utter prudes and women got married without even knowing what goes on during one’s wedding night is not very accurate.
Nonetheless, my grandma does not give head.
I really do not want to search for the cite for this, for obvious reasons, but on another forum someone posted once (with a cite) that there is indeed a change in the way youngsters are giving head compared to the oldies. The article claimed that women who grew up before porn(movies) became available in one’s own home via VCRs and downloadable via internet do not tilt their head in a way that makes it easy for the camera to get a good view, while young women who did grow up with lots of porn discretely available in their own home and had that as their information source copied and incorparated that camera angle style as the way it should be done.