The problem with aging is you have less time to recover from errors.
If you make a miscalculation when your 24 so what? You to the next ten years to start over and you know what, you’ll only be 34. Then if you screw up again, you can work on getting your act together and still have time to recover.
Once you get over 40 you have real issues. If you lose your home when you’re 44 getting a new one isn’t going to be easy. Do you think a lender is going to look at a 44 year old emerging from bankruptcy trying to get a 20 year mortgage with the same view as a 34 year old?
Healthwise there are a lot of irritating issues. Skin sags, your eyes tend to need reading glasses. This seem trivial until the first time you’re in a store and can’t read a label. You take longer to recover from an illness and you have to weigh things out.
For instance, let’s say you need a root canal. That’s $1,500 where I am. But that’s also a downpayment. Your average root canal will last roughly 10 years. (I’ve had some last much longer and some much shorter). But $1,500 is also a down payment on a new car.
Too often when you get threads you get unrealistic answers by well meaning people, that are overly negative or overly positive.
You cannot feel the same at 40 as you did when you were 20. It’s not true. Unless you were a blob that was comatose. For instance, when I was in my 20 and even 30s I could go to bed at 5am and get up at 7am and go to work. Oh sure I was tired but I got by.
Now if I don’t get eight hours I HURT. I mean a PHYSICALLY HURT.
Growing old is nice if you have financial security and have had a good life, otherwise, not so much.
The real issue is TIME. The thing you have is POTENTIAL. Young people have that.
As you age you learn to accept things, but acceptance doesn’t mean good.
Your perspective changes. For instance, my dad died at 50, my mum at 60. Realistically I am very healthy and that probably won’t happen to me. But it could. At 46, you start to think, Gee maybe I’ll only have 4 Christmas’s left.
I get a kick out of people who say “It’s never too late.” Too often in my life and in other perople’s lives, I’ve see it where in reality it is not only too late, but it’s later than you think.
This is why it’s important not to waste your youth. Do things you want. Get out and live life. This is it and you’re never gonna be young again. And if you fail so what? You have the time to start over.