went out last night to a nice club here in aberdeen.
i was with my boyfriend, and a mutual male friend.
the club was packed to the rafters. we arrived about 11:30pm. we left about 1am.
that wasn’t the plan.
the is a 30ft walk from the entrance t the dancefloor, past the bar. as it was so crowded we had to push our way through the crowd to get there.
in the space of 3 minutes and 30 feet i had my ass pinched twice, breasts grabbed once and some asshole shoved his hand down the front of my trousers.
now, I was wearing black trousers, flat shoes and a strapless top, i was definitely NOT dressed provactively.
Oh yes, and all the while I was holding onto irishfella’s hand.
In a club full of young, nubile, half-naked, drunk women i understand the temptation is there to touch them.
and i’m sure some of them wouldn’t have a problem with it if you did.
BUT I DO.
HELLO dickwads. I’m WITH someone. I’m NOT A PIECE OF MEAT.
GROW UP.
you really upset me, and worse than that you upset my guy.
he felt really bad about it all and i spent the rest of the night trying to cheer him up.
i hope the next girl you touched bitchslapped you.
that is all.
rant over.
Ummm, why didn’t you bitchslap him?
Seriously, I’ve been grabbed and pinched a couple times and lived with it, so I understand just moving on. But “shaking off” some dickdrip shoving his hand down your pants? No way! He pulls that shit on me and he’s getting a knee to the nuts, no joke.
Grrrrrrrrr…slobbery gropers make me so mad :mad: <—see!
bella–adding another reason to her “why I avoid crowds” list
That really sucks. I’d just like to add that I’m sad you even felt you had to point out that you weren’t dressed provocatively, as if that would make any difference in how assholish it is to grope someone. I don’t care if you’re wearing a thong and tassles, loser dickheads shouldn’t be pawing at you. Fuckers.
oops- I forgot to mention I’m sorry that happened to you Irishgirl…I hate it when that happens. I think the last time it happened to me I was wearing a tee shirt and cutoffs…hardly provocative wear.
You should have slapped the offender or since you probably didn’t have the room to get a good swing in needed for a good slap, you should have put you knee through their crotch.
At the club I usually go to one asswipe tried it once. Miss don’t take to no one fondling her without express permission. Redneck walked bowlegged for a while and no one has dared tried that shit again
