I say you should be happy you only got a Note. I got a Warning for purportedly doing the exact same thing. (I didn’t make an ATMB thread because I didn’t feel good, knew it wouldn’t get the Warning rescinded, and knew another thread like it would pop up in the future.) Like you, I do not think my post was telling someone else how to post. I was, in my case, telling someone they didn’t have enough information about the subject to be saying what they said, and then proceeded to offer the information they didn’t know.
And I see how, in your case, your were just “attacking the post.” Uncivil? Perhaps. But also the actual rule in GD. There’s no way that attacking anything can ever be fully civil.
Furthermore, it was snarky, and snark is always going to seem uncivil. That’s what it is: a snide remark. Snideness isn’t civil. And as I was told back in 2008 when I complained, snark is a huge, huge part of this board, and it will never be completely eliminated.
Whether he’ll admit it or not, Jonathan Chance has changed how GD and Elections are moderated. He has tightened ship. It’s frustrating that it’s often inconsistently applied (see us purportedly doing the same thing but getting a different response), but we basically just have to accept that the GD we had for over a decade is no longer here.
The only way to post in these forums safely is to do a final pass on what you write, and think “How would someone determined to get me in trouble parse my post?” Sure, the vast majority of the time you’ll be find without that. But, seeing how many people get Warnings who never did before (or hadn’t for a long time, showing they’d learned their lesson), it’s the only way to be sure.
Or, I guess, post normally, and if you wind up in trouble, assume the board isn’t for you anymore. I know people for whom this is now the case.