Two brags!
One: I went trick-or-treating with my niece and grand-niece back on Halloween, in a subdivision that just about turned Halloween into a block party.
Anyway, one of the houses we stopped at was doing/decorated as a “Pirate” theme. The adults were friendly enough, but a couple of the kids were acting kind of bored.
Jokingly, I tease-chided the parents, who were speaking bog-standard Missouri English, with my best “Captain Barbossa” pirate voice. One of the kids, a boy of about 12, laughed out loud; the other kids were like, “whatever.”
As we walked away, the Mom came up behind us and quietly thanked me. “For what,” I asked? Turns out the boy was autistic, and fairly withdrawn, and my little voice-trick was the first time he’d seemed to enjoy himself all night.
So, I brought a smile and a laugh to a child; it made my night.
Two: I was miserable at work. A new boss and a change of managerial culture turned a job that I’d barely had for two years (and had previously enjoyed) into a wretched daily grind.
So, instead of “gutting it out,” per usual, growing progressively more miserable until I’d act out and get myself fired, I started looking for new employment, found it, and left my old job before it could make me miserable or otherwise fuck me up.
The new job is so far much, much better; a smaller company, privately owned, and a family business, so “culture change” at a company level is unlikely.