The crazy cat lady takes another step toward madness

I just adopted a two-year-old recently neutered male cat from the local shelter, to add to my seven-cat collection.

No, wait! It’s not as crazy as it sounds!

Okay, well, I suppose it is, but “Peter” (name soon to change; current candidates are Bob the Cat, Tom Terrific, and Ringo - he has white rings above both hocks) is just such a cool cat, so frickin’ GORGEOUS and with such a laidback, easygoing, friendly disposition, well… I was delivering a donation of cat food two Sundays ago, saw him among the others waiting for homes, and was immediately smitten by his good looks. I made his acquaintance and, well… Ah. I surrendered to the madness, told the shelter folks I was interested, went home to sleep on it, still wanted him in the morning, and sweated out the possibility that someone who’d already expressed interest in him before me might adopt him. After a week’s wait, I got him! And took him home this evening. Here is a photo the shelter gave me; needless to say, there will be many more of my own to come soon.

So, how did his introduction to the resident seven go? I expected curses, threats, declarations of hostility at first, but hoped the new guy’s mellowness would smooth his acceptance. What actually happened?

I can’t believe how well things are going so far! He’s been loose for over an hour now, and is wandering around the house, sniffing and examining and softly yowling a running commentary about it all. He’s already found the basement litter boxes, and the water dishes in the kitchen.

The other cats? Fascinated, wary, but no expressions of hostility other than some mild hissing from Sophie when she gets close to him. He’s already had his butt sniffed by three or four of the guys as he walked by them. The new guy is amazingly lowkey, bleerts amiably at any of the residents who sniff nose or butt with him, and moves on, offering no aggression.

Ah, as I sit here typing at the computer, he’s just gone back downstairs for at least the fourth time. He keeps going off to explore, then coming back to flop down near me. When he first went into my bedroom, Teddy and Freddy and Squash were all in there, crouched about the periphery, watching closely. He walked near them in his ceaseless explorations without sending any of them into defensive mode, and even plopped himself down on his side for a couple of minutes under the bed, unfazed by the fact that Teddy was crouched under there also, a couple of feet away, or that Sophie was peeking under the side of the bed, hissing tentatively. Nope, he just offered a muted blleerrtt and after a bit got up and wandered off.

Not a single scream of outrage from anyone yet. His way of dealing with the others is to hold himself unaggressively, often lying down when they creep toward him, then getting up and moving away if one comes closer than a foot. He’s making it as clear as he can that he’s not looking for a fight.

Ah, okay, you just knew I had to be taking pix of all this, right? Okay, here is a lousy one, very cropped, very grainy, color’s not quite right, but it does show Ringo (I think that’s what will end up being his name) and Fred sniffing noses, without so much as a spit-hiss erupting.

Sally so far is the most horrified. She just crept into my office, her tail half-bottled out. I suspect she’ll get over it pretty quickly, though.

He sure does talk a lot. Good thing he has a small, burbly voice. Oh, and did I mention he’s utterly GORGEOUS?

Oh, he is indeed gorgeous. I love the tabbies.

I can’t believe you have seven cats who aren’t boxing his ears. Our two girls met as adults, and they have only made it as far as armed truce in six years of living together.

I’m amazed at how well it’s going – still going; there still hasn’t been any eruption. I see a few reasons for that:

He’s so amazingly mellow and low-key and unassuming with the others. He isn’t the least bit afraid of them or the least bit hostile, even when he gets hissed at, which Sophie’s done a few times. He doesn’t give them anything to escalate from.

The others have seen previous additions to the household and gotten over them: Sophie saw EddyTeddyFreddy saw Squash and Pumpkin saw Sally enter the menage. It’s not like they haven’t been through adjusting to a newbie before.

Sylvia, Sophie’s sister, died a few months ago and the hierarchy and habits of the others have been shifting about ever since, so the situation is already somewhat fluid.

I just hope things continue to go so well.

Congratulations! Those orange fellows will steal your heart, won’t they?

I hope things continue to go smoothly. I am up to nine cats now, and am telling myself NO MORE! Of course I started saying that when I had three, but…

The name Ringo fits him well! Yeah for you for adopting a handsome kitty! We tried getting another cat years ago but it didn’t work out. No pics, she didn’t stay long enough to get some. Charlotte was her name and she was sweet but she scratched our youngest right under his eye pretty bad and we had to take her back. He had to have the glue stitches done. I would love to ave more cats but alas Snickers will not allow. :frowning:

same pic of Snickers from other threads

another Snickers picture

Is it just the picture or is he really that red? My red boy (not that red) talks a lot, too.

The new guy really is a deep, rich orange in his dark parts, and the depth of his coloring changes with changes in the light. My other orange boys, Eddy (yes, that is a double bed he’s sprawled across), Teddy, and Freddy, are mackeral tabbies. So are my two cream (dilute red) boys, Pumpkin and Squash. You can clearly see the difference between cream and red (pale orange and dark orange), and the sameness of the mackeral pattern, in this shot of Squash, Pumpkin and Teddy.

It’s midnight now, and things are still peaceful. Tiny Sally is still hiding on top of the kitchen cabinets, even more bugeyed than usual. Sophie isn’t hissing any more. The large orange ones pad about, mildly disgruntled but unsure what to do about it. The normal-sized veggie boys hide and watch.

The new guy is quite content, even under surveillance by Teddy.

He is red and shiney even! I like reheads with copper eyes too. Mine is also named Pumpkin. She’s Persian and speaks in complete sentences. I think it’s Farsi?

Congratulations on your new son, ETF! It had to be, you know.

Oh my, what a beautiful cat. And all the others, too.

:: falls over with pleasure ::

You just knew it was too good to be true, right?

Shortly after my last report, Ringo was on the first floor with me. Fred approached to sniff noses. Tension showed in both cats. Then Ringo launched into a full-out attack and in a heartbeat they were locked in a rolling, screeching, growling, fur-flying fight. Fred broke free and bolted upstairs with Ringo hotly pursuing. More fighting in the bedroom, another escape back downstairs by Fred, combat continuing in the living room, till I was able to break it up by throwing water on them. A short while later I barely averted another fight, this time between Ringo and Ted.

Gah. Grimly I went to every level of the condo, depositing water dishes and sprinkling kibble about, so that no one would have to venture far from hiding to eat and drink. I was able to clip two or three of the claws on each forepaw of Ringo when he’d calmed down and relaxed on the couch. Then I went to bed, worried. No death duels awoke me.

This morning? No battles or even threats of one yet. Fred is unharmed. There are signs of water and food consumption, though not sightings of all actual cats (I think Squash is hiding behind or on top of the furnace, haven’t seen him since war broke out). Ringo hasn’t offered violence to the girls or Pumpkin. Perhaps they don’t look like a threat to him.

Sigh. This is just the first 24 hours – less, actually. All is calm right now. Ringo likes to be near me when he’s not patrolling. As I type this, he’s just headed upstairs, perhaps to use the litter boxes (again; I’ve seen him pee squatting in one already, so that at least isn’t a problem). Ed’s stretched out on top of the bookcase near me. Fred’s huddled under a bedroom dresser. Pumpkin and Sophie are clumped together on the bed. Earlier I extracted Sally from the top of the kitchen cabinets, where I believe she spent the night. She spent some time with me at the computer, then I took her to the fourth floor where she could get food, drink, and litterbox access. Now she’s vanished. I think she’s gone to hide in the basement behind the furnace with Squash (and Ted?).

I’m not giving up yet. I’ll give it more time. Hopefully, once the power relationships are established, there’ll be a truce and everyone will emerge to a life of detente at least. I’ve put up a Webshots album for Ringo this morning, with the photos I shared yesterday and a few more:
http://pets.webshots.com/album/558147993HBpqiJ

So far, so so-so, with hopes of a better tomorrow. But if Ringo attacks Sophie,* it’s all over, back he goes to the shelter. Nobody hurts my little old fat girl!

Oh, and on today’s shopping list is a squirtgun.

*As I’ve been typing this: Sophie came into my office, complained, and nibbled at kibble. Ringo stretched out in the hallway outside. They exchanged looks. Sophie hissed. Ringo was blase. He came over to sit in the doorway, contemplating her, took a drink from the water dish there, and wandered off. Ed observed it all from his perch on the bookcase, where he’s snoozing right now.

Pick up some Feliway too. It’s supposed to have a calming effect. You can get it in a spray bottle or a plug in diffuser. The diffuser might work better for you. It’s a little pricey and you may have to get it from a vet but it might help.

This has such a nice “war correspondent” tone to it. :stuck_out_tongue:

“Back to you, Wolf.”

Gosh, the new guy is handsome!

In the meantime, you should try your hand at producing a YouTube clip like this one. (No cats are injured, don’t worry.)

:smiley:

This just in: Ted emerged from his lurking place in back of the furnace, warily checked out the first floor, and went back into hiding. Fred emerged from under the bureau and is currently watching for the invader from atop the dining area china cabinet. Sally, Ed and Sophie are cautiously exploring outside their personal Green Zones. Pumpkin continues to hide in his fourth-floor bunker. Squash is still missing and assumed to be hiding behind the furnace.

Ringo took a nap on the couch while I took one upstairs. He seems quite relaxed now. Perhaps last night’s explosion was the culmination of sensory overload. An hour or so ago he tolerated Ed stepping slowly and warily to within a foot or two of where he was lying, followed by an equally slow and wary step by glacially slow step retreat. I don’t think Ringo was giggling to himself as Ed did his slo-mo exit, but there was a certain glint in his half-closed eyes. :wink:

Right now he and Sophie are regarding each other from less than a yard’s distance. Ah, all is well.

This is ETF, reporting live from Catastrophe City.

Is Fred your alpha cat? The earlier outburst sounds like Ringo starting to make a place for himself in the household hierarchy.

Ringo’s attitude sounds like he is pretty dominant to me. Our dominant cat is like that - she doesn’t care what the other cat does - she goes where she pleases, and does what she pleases. The un-dominant cat is the one with the nervous tics. With seven cats (now eight, tentatively), I guess you’d know all about dom/sub cats, ETF. :smiley:

This just in: Squash has been spotted outside of his hiding place! All the way from the basement to the second floor!

Well, almost all the way. As I was sitting here at the computer, finishing up my emailing for the afternoon, I saw a little cream and white face peeking through the banisters at me from the first step below the landing. It was Squash!

Alas, as he dithered over coming closer, he spotted NEMESIS!!! curled up napping in the corridor, between him and me. The little face withdrew and he went back downstairs. But it was so encouraging to see him dare to emerge, if only briefly.

Now, if I could just persuade Ringo not to attack anyone again…

I think I’m in love with Sophie. Please don’t tell Cricket.

Aw, Cricket’s such a cutie! As cute as badkittypriestess’s baby!

As I write this, Fred, Ted and Squash are loosely clumped at one end of the top of a kitchen cabinet. Ed came down from the china cabinet and soon got chased upstairs, but with no screeching fight ensuing. Sally came downstairs to visit but bolted back upstairs when Ringo came toward her. Sophie is curled on her usual office chair, keeping an eye on the Invading Monster as he snoozes on the floor near me.

It’s looking obvious that the new guy intends to own the place. I just hope he lets the previous owners go about their business in peace soon.