Actually I saw a program on Mtv about something similar. Granted they weren’t married men, they were living as heterosexuals (they had girlfriends)who had an occasional fling here and there.
“My wag is that “rules” for attraction in homosexuals are like nipples on men. They don’t help in childraising but the genes are there anyway and still get expressed. I.e., we may have evolved certain behaviors for a particular reason but lacking that reason doesn’t make the behavior go away.”
Ftg–
That’s what I was trying to say; you found a more vivid way to say it.